So I decided to get back on track with focusing on my desire with my original person and try again to attract him, however I didn't realise that I'm really hurting my chances with new people because of it. The line 'this man or someone better' comes to mind but the problem is is that I'm not connecting well with new men anymore since I decided to go for my desire again. I have a guy I'm chatting to but its long distance and for the last week I've been feeling really bored or even annoyed when I talk to him. He's booked a ticket to come see me next month and he's not pressuring or anything but I nearly broke it all off last night because I just wasn't feeling it. I didn't though and we're still talking but its not the same for me and I'm not excited about him anymore since I started getting focused on my original person. I'm kind of thinking that I just need to make a move and get closure with my original person, which means to me to try and see if its going to happen this year or just let it go forever and delete it from my list of desires. I feel its like I want a Jaguar car but a bunch of Ferraris are showing up and I'm not able to appreciate them while I think of my jaguar.

Anyone feel similar? Any ideas,?