Here is my update.  So, I'm back into focussing on the love within myself and also just radiating my love wherever I am.  I'm affirming that I am the attractor, the love magnet and that he is with me already, and he is in many ways!   I went down the line of initiating sex and stuff and have realised that's not what I want and he behaved in a way that reflected my change in thinking regarding this.  So, I'm relaxing now, trusting more, setting the vibrational tone and then sitting back in receptive mode, ready to receive.   It's a real nice feeling just to put myself in that kind of mindset and space of being the 'attractor magnet' for my love and allowing it all to unfold in perfect timing.  I've scripted the movie, and am now just going to sit back and watch it now

A few little things have been cropping up as 'evidence'.   He has started having showers at mine again.  And I literally found a used bottle of his shower gel and cleaned it up for him and it's now been reinstated in the corner of the bath next to my shampoo! lol   We didn't live together but he often took showers and so this is a nice sign of vibrational change and closeness.   And, he brought up his friends large TV yesterday for us to watch movies and it looks like it will be here a while!   We're having more dinners together.  My instincts are kicking in regarding affection in a natural way although I'm holding back on acting on it, not sure if I should but I think after the whole sex/physical stuff, need to give him a bit of space, lol ?

He told me he's getting his phone sorted this week, it was genuinely out of order, but he's getting his friends old one, so it will be easier to be in contact again. 

He mentioned about taking me to the city to his favourite beer/pizza place and is certain I can get a vegan pizza there!

I got a recycled cooker but it requires a thorough clean.  He said it could be taken up to his for industrial cleaning as he knows I'm chemical sensitive!!!!  This was a very generous offer on his part!

One of his catchphrases was 'is it time for bed yet'?  and yesterday after we met up, it kind of slipped out of his mouth! lol  (I had him say this during my visualisation)

I still have to catch myself from 'wandering' and interpreting his words/behaviour.  I would say more here but I know that I can't write anything that is not in alignment with my new story, lol  It's a paradox at times!!!  There's just no point in describing anything doubtful or contrary to the fulfillment of my desire.  Once you know how LoA works, you realise it's better not to express anything negative or what would be the opposite of what you desire.  I just won't let myself write anything like that now, especially since I've been scripting my relationship 'as the new reality'

So, I just wanted to share what's been going on a bit and hope it's been helpful in some way!

Last edited by Susiewoo (7/25/2016 3:05 am)