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So my guy has told me he wants me through message.. told me he loves me when he was drunk lol.. we talk on the phone almost every day BUT STILL he switches up out of nowhere & becomes disrespectful.. last night we had an amaaaaazig conversation on the phone for hours as always & his feelings for me were showing.. I've felt confident about us for a while.. & then today out of nowhere he unfollowed me on Instagram & when I asked him why he did this coz it's the 4th time now he's done this (immature seriously) he said it was because he was seeing how much I check on his profile :/ I actually don't even check it... I tried to call him later tonight as we always talk & he got mad & messaged me to stop calling him :/ - I still believe in us but when he switches up sooooo much I feel disrespected & feel like why should I tolerate this? I respect myself too much.. I'm a bit confused on what to do...
What could I be doing to attract this??? Or do you think his feelings are just becoming too intense now & he's trying to block it all out???
Last edited by Rainbows (7/24/2016 9:52 pm)
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Thank you for replying!!!
I haven't forgot.. That's where my confusion kicked in because I could'nt understand what I was doing to attract this? I've been soooo excited about our relationship because I know full well it's unfolding.. I genuinely feel like we are already together & ive been happy & excited lol .. that's why I'm reeeeally confused - I've been trying to analyze my feelings/ emotions & I have been feeling great.., that's why I don't get it lol
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You need to be so content and busy and free spirited in your life that checking to see who's following you on your Instagram just doesn't happen ! Don't sweat the little things and I recommend not chasing ie calling him when you're worried about his actions. Write out a list of all the reasons he should really be on his knees begging you back and then go about your day being that girl ! live the vibration
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Awww thank you guys for your advice! I appreciate it so much!!!
Just to make it clear him unfollowing me didn't upset me or make me angry.. I was simply confused lol we had just spoke.. I only knew he'd done this because I tried to tag him in something funny.. lol the thing that hurt me was him telling me not to call him ..& it was more the principle behind it.. like he completely switched on me.. I was sooooooo confused! I still know we'll be together ..my main query was HOW am I attracting this behavior from him if I'm vibrating high & feeling positive about him & I together? Lol that's what I'm trying to understand.. Lol
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If you watch Bashars video 'circumstances don't matter' that might help you.Β What you're witnessing now is past thoughts.Β Just keep on with creating and feeling the new vibration you're getting going more and more.Β Stay positive, don't focus on undesirable behaviour at the moment.Β Keep shining brightly and being good and respectful to yourself first.
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Do you guys think it could be my vibration from something else? Lol for example I got into it with my brother earlier that day but I used EFT to get rid of my frustration with him & I was good so I thought lol
I agree there could possibly be sub-conscious fears etc.. I definitely feel good though more than anything when I think of us together.. I just feel he's already mine lol so hopefully it is just old stuff lol ..& you are right about me wondering what caused it is not productive at all lol however I like to check myself lol like if there's something I can shift in myself that has been creating this I would want to change it.. but YES I AM MOVING ON FROM IT NOW!! Lol.. I needed to move through my emotions today.. been a long time since physical reality has actually got me in my feelings hahaha.. THANK YOU guys for your help though.. made it easier for me & I'm going to screenshot your advice for the future.. & I'm going to watch that Bashar video right now!!!!
Sending you lots of LOVE & LIGHT