One thing is to forget and another thing is to be certain that your desire is already granted and coming to you. You can visualize your end result whenever a negative thought appears. For example: my end result is getting married and I have this image in my head of my man smiling and putting a ring around my finger. I only can see my hands and my arms, and him, standing in front of me.
When I doubt, I breathe, I close my eyes (and even with my eyes open) and see and feel that image. I feel the emotion in my stomach.
Focusing on your end result allows you to ignore everything that's happening in this reality, like him not calling you, or not saying the things you want to hear.
Your desire is there, the universe knows what you want and your wish is already fulfilled, but you have to raise your vibration to see it physically.
What if I you want a car and you are saving money to buy it. You made a plan to buy the car in December. You know you will have the money to get the car. You don't have it now, but you know you will have it when the whole amount needed is saved. How would you feel? You are not forgetting your wish, you just know that it will come in a few months, and knowing that makes you really happy and excited.
That's the feeling we have to reach and maintain.

Last edited by Jim Chien Beige (7/22/2016 9:16 pm)

Colonel Roosevelt wrote:

Nowadays I just trust my intuition on it. But I've personally seen that after focusing for a time, there comes a point where you reach a state of knowing and then forgetting or letting it go is easy because you already know or feel like it's all working out.

 
Thank you for both your responses. I'm certain about my desire, my vibe has been happy/excitement for almost 3 weeks and I'm continuing it. But -- do I have to stop thinking about the desire completely, even though I know the universe is going to deliver? I'm still working on maintaining the vibe without thinking about the desire, but right now the desire still gives me that rush of a feeling that I live so much. I've rid myself almost completely of resistance, and when there is a negative thought I've been good about throwing it out.

big_blue wrote:

I'm certain about my desire, my vibe has been happy/excitement for almost 3 weeks and I'm continuing it. But -- do I have to stop thinking about the desire completely, even though I know the universe is going to deliver? I'm still working on maintaining the vibe without thinking about the desire, but right now the desire still gives me that rush of a feeling that I live so much. I've rid myself almost completely of resistance, and when there is a negative thought I've been good about throwing it out.

From my own experience, no - I didn't have to stop thinking about my desire for it to manifest, be it a desire I took action on or just let be. But I do notice that the difference between negative and positive results is how I think about my desires. Do I think of it from a place of sadness and depression or do I think of it from a place of optimism and freedom? Usually when my desire came true, I was more comfortable thinking about it less and less because I already felt confident about it. Sometimes I even thought negative about my desire and it still came true. I don't know why, but the best explanation I have is that even though I didn't believe it would happen and I repeated that thought, I didn't let that belief drag me down to despair. It was more like "OK, it's not gonna happen, but I can be happy anyway," and that sense of optimism and acceptance may have kept me positive about my main goals overall.
 

Okay, so essentially I can still think positively about him, which I have, and I'm not screwing things up? I daydream a lot and he happens to be occupying space in my mind. I know the universe is going to deliver my desire since my desire came back to me on his own.

Thank you all for your responses! You all have put into perspective my curious mind. I am vibing high -- this is so exciting! People from my past, both romantic and non keep popping up, no lie. I am on the right path, and I have all of you (and other members of this board) to thank!

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