When I think about all the things that I have consciously attracted using the LoA, they have at least one thing in common: It was easy. I really had fun with all the little things that I attracted to test LoA. I wasn't attached in any way, didn't care about when it would show up and even forgot about it (how should I notice that it wasn't here yet when I've forgotten about it?). That's the way it works, but it's hard to implement that attitude with something/someone that's very important to you. So how do we go about important things?

Let me share a story with you I already shared in another thread, but I think it's interesting to analyse it a little more.

Last year, I sat at home with a final degree in a discipline I didn't want to work in. I had an idea what I wanted, but no idea how to achieve that. One day, I decided to study psychology, no matter how huge the obstacles (and they seemed huge for me at that point). I was really determined and focused on what I wanted and the universe smoothed the biggest obstacle out immediately. Normally, you need very good grades to get an university place in psychology in Germany. If you don't have good grades, you have to wait for a few years - in my case it would have been at least 5 years, but I was ready to do that, and the universe brought me different application requirements for people who already had a degree. With ardor I went to work and did everything to make my application the best possible. After the application period, the universities released ranking lists. The first university that did that was the one I wanted to go the most. I wasn't one of the people who got a place (that doesn't mean much, because many people refuse their places), but I still believed I would get one, made a screenshot, changed a few numbers and put it on my desktop. I didn't freak out, I didn't look on what is too much, I did other things in the next days. Within 4 days (including a weekend) 7 people refused their places and I was in. The funny thing was that no other university had released their ranking lists to that time, so it made no sense for the other people to refuse their places. But who cares? It's LoA.

So, that were the circumstances. Let's come to the important part now: How did my thoughts and feelings look like? In the beginning, I didn't believe I would get a place, because most of the universities had only 1-2 places for people who already had a final degree, and it wasn't allowed to apply to more than 20 universities. So there were maybe 40 places I could get and hundreds of other people who also wanted a place - I saw limitations. But my ex believed I would get a place and after a while I believed it too [I have to add that I had the idea to study psychology in the end of march, the application process started in may and I got my result in august, so I had a few months to work on my vibration]. I did apply LoA semi-consciously, even though I hadn't really understood it back then. I visualised maybe one or two times (that was the conscious part of using LoA), but I did some things right intuitively. I have NOT fully believed all the time. I had doubts, BUT no fear. I had the mindset "if it doesn't work out this year, I can try again next year". So I put no pressure on it. I didn't try to force it. I felt completely excited about psychology every time I thought about it. It made me feel really good (I wish it would be still this way..lol). I felt no lack, because I had this natural gestation period (=application process). I knew that I wouldn't know my results until the universities put their lists out, so it was illogical to feel a sense of lack. I didn't talk about what I would do, if it wouldn't work out. I looked for the prizes of appartments in the different cities, I calculated how much money I would need every month and so on. I planed it before I had the acceptance, but it wasn't pretending. It was a necessary action in my eyes. Before I got my acceptance, I looked for appartments with my ex in the city I wanted to study in, because he had to move there. That were the moments in which I really forgot that I haven't had my acceptance yet. It was SO real and of course did I thought about which room would be mine, if I would get the acceptance, and where we would put the table..lol. What I never did was faking anything. I haven't acted as if or pretended that I wasn't were I was. But I didn't feel stuck in the place I was and didn't give it more attention then necessary. Instead, I focused fully on what I wanted and I got it better than I could ever imagine it. When I look back, I find this story very interesting, because I demonstrated some unconscious competence here and it's obviously LoA in action.

To recap the main points here: It was VERY important to me and I was attached to it, BUT I didn't put pressure on it. I didn't care when it would happen, I only wanted it to happen (and it happened the quickest way possible). I believed in it most of the time, but not always. I had only good feelings towards my desire and sometimes I forgot that my acceptance had yet to come (= I felt that I already was that psychology student). I have to admit that I thought about it very much. It dominated my thoughts for months and I talked about it all the time, but I talked about the possibility and not the impossibility and I talked about what would be, IF I would get the place and not about what I would do, if it wouldn't work out in my favour. I didn't try to make it happen. I didn't visualise (at least not in a planned manner - it was more daydreaming about how it would be to have it) or script to make it happen. I didn't waited for it to happen, but lived my life.

So please, stop all this trying and efforting and trying to make it happen. LoA is not about sweat, but about ease and flow and relaxing. You don't have to effort your way to your manifestation - in fact, you can't. Just go out in the sun, sit down on a meadow and enjoy the daydreams about your desire. Do it, because you enjoy it and not because you want to make something happen. I wasn't aware of my daydreaming. I didn't do it to make something happen, but because it felt good to me to dream about studying psychology. And be honest to yourself. You can't pretend to relax or pretend to do it for your joy. You can fool others, you can even fool yourself, but your vibration reveals the truth about your thoughts and feelings.
So give up.
Give up the doubts.
Give up the struggle.
Give up the trying.
Give up the efforting.
Give up the needing.
Give up the need to have it as soon as possible.
Relax. Just relax. Breathe. Know your worth. Be yourself and be enough for yourself.