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Ok so I have the biggest crush on this guy, he's a nerd just like me, hella smart, a sweetheart, funny and just an all around awesome person. He makes me feel giddy and awkward like I'm thirteen again its pathetic honest lol. The problem is that we've never met and he lives in a totally different state than I do. I really like this guy,is it possible to make this happen ? I'm grateful for any advice I'm given.
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With the universe, anything is possible. Don't worry about the how, the when, or the where. Ask the universe for what you want and keep the good vibes coming. Get in the feeling of having him now, and focus on what your desired reality looks like (i.e., a reality where you two are together).
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big_blue wrote:
With the universe, anything is possible. Don't worry about the how, the when, or the where. Ask the universe for what you want and keep the good vibes coming. Get in the feeling of having him now, and focus on what your desired reality looks like (i.e., a reality where you two are together).
OK so how do I officially ask ? Also,how do I not get anxious about not seeing it yet ?
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Blerdy. wrote:
big_blue wrote:
With the universe, anything is possible. Don't worry about the how, the when, or the where. Ask the universe for what you want and keep the good vibes coming. Get in the feeling of having him now, and focus on what your desired reality looks like (i.e., a reality where you two are together).
OK so how do I officially ask ? Also,how do I not get anxious about not seeing it yet ?
You have already ask. You don't get anxious by understanding the LoA fully and by focusing on what you want and not the lack of it.
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Sanshi wrote:
Blerdy. wrote:
big_blue wrote:
With the universe, anything is possible. Don't worry about the how, the when, or the where. Ask the universe for what you want and keep the good vibes coming. Get in the feeling of having him now, and focus on what your desired reality looks like (i.e., a reality where you two are together).
OK so how do I officially ask ? Also,how do I not get anxious about not seeing it yet ?
You have already ask. You don't get anxious by understanding the LoA fully and by focusing on what you want and not the lack of it.
Like only visualizing what our relationship will be like when I'm in a good mood ?
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Blerdy wrote:
Like only visualizing what our relationship will be like when I'm in a good mood ?
Yes, that is part of it. Keep your focus on what you want -- the relationship. Visualizing is a vibe booster, nothing more. That in itself will not bring him back. BUT, feeling good, feeling as if your already have him is what will.
Right now, think of how it would feel if he was yours (because he is!). How would you feel? Ecstatic? Excited? Over the moon? Those are the feelings you want to tap into and hold them there as best you can!
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big_blue wrote:
Blerdy wrote:
Like only visualizing what our relationship will be like when I'm in a good mood ?
Yes, that is part of it. Keep your focus on what you want -- the relationship. Visualizing is a vibe booster, nothing more. That in itself will not bring him back. BUT, feeling good, feeling as if your already have him is what will.
Right now, think of how it would feel if he was yours (because he is!). How would you feel? Ecstatic? Excited? Over the moon? Those are the feelings you want to tap into and hold them there as best you can!
Is it really that simple ?
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Blerdy. wrote:
big_blue wrote:
Blerdy wrote:
Like only visualizing what our relationship will be like when I'm in a good mood ?
Yes, that is part of it. Keep your focus on what you want -- the relationship. Visualizing is a vibe booster, nothing more. That in itself will not bring him back. BUT, feeling good, feeling as if your already have him is what will.
Right now, think of how it would feel if he was yours (because he is!). How would you feel? Ecstatic? Excited? Over the moon? Those are the feelings you want to tap into and hold them there as best you can!
Is it really that simple ?
Yes, it's that simple. But it's not an easy thing to do, if you have practiced something else for decades.
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it is. Don't look at it like its a large desire. It's just as simple as getting a parking spot or a free meal
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Sanshi wrote:
Blerdy. wrote:
big_blue wrote:
Yes, that is part of it. Keep your focus on what you want -- the relationship. Visualizing is a vibe booster, nothing more. That in itself will not bring him back. BUT, feeling good, feeling as if your already have him is what will.
Right now, think of how it would feel if he was yours (because he is!). How would you feel? Ecstatic? Excited? Over the moon? Those are the feelings you want to tap into and hold them there as best you can!
Is it really that simple ?
Yes, it's that simple. But it's not an easy thing to do, if you have practiced something else for decades.
Is it normal to not think about it for a while even though I want a relationship with him ?