Hi lovely friends

Right, so my situation is that over the last two weekends, I've had sex with my guy.  I initiated it and he just went with it.  So, outside of the bedroom, we're not kissing/being tactile.  It's just back to being all friendly but non tactile apart from the basic kindly leaving/hello hug we normally do.  The thing is, I think all the vibration stuff I've been doing has really increased my attraction to him and I just want to really kiss him and be tactile in a way that would be natural for any couple.  But, because when we've been intimate so far, it's really just been sex, emotionally detached, I'm not sure what to 'do' because he isn't initiating the physical part.  Just today, I'm finding myself a bit emotional about it because I so want to kiss him and I didn't when we met for our music practise.  Or do I just still keep the tactile stuff for the bedroom only?  Hmmm?  Would like some input please?  Things in general are going really well between us as they have been for months now.