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So I got to a place that we are totally back into communication after 2 months of being blocked. I of course placed my order to broad to have him back...so when I did it was a booty call. So I got specific an don't got a date. I got even more specific and got him to wanna do family things. Then we had a huge fight and the focus was off.
I am back into having fun with this and shared my gratitude post and the things he did that were on it are material in right in front of my eyes...but there is barely any communication (talking on the phone for hours giggling and laughing or dating and hanging out) unlike when I first manifested him back and no real obvious affection.
Now thIs post isn't a complaint at all but a tire confusion of how LOA works. So the last view days he has texted messages making sure I am situated at home...my car...even today asking me what can he do to make sure our daughter and i enjoy our weekendπ
But when he called he only called to say the money was in my account and that he was still away for another week and just hanging out...
Where as before he was super chatty but no signs of genuine concern of my internal happiness.
Now it's flipped...I'm so confused! I'm sure I'm doing something right because he is here but not sure how to get the balance right to make sense of it.
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You are doing a lot right. Don't analyse his behavior. Maybe he is just stressed or something happened, so that he doesn't want to talk so much to people in general. Don't focus on it.
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Yeah, just ignore what you're observing, what he says/doesnt' say.Β Stay focussed on how you see it manifesting, and keep on loving, yourself and him.
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Sanshi wrote:
You are doing a lot right. Don't analyse his behavior. Maybe he is just stressed or something happened, so that he doesn't want to talk so much to people in general. Don't focus on it.
You know that's entirely possible. Thanks.
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Susiewoo wrote:
Yeah, just ignore what you're observing, what he says/doesnt' say.Β Stay focussed on how you see it manifesting, and keep on loving, yourself and him.
Thanks. The focus man is a beast! Especially when it's hard to deal with being without his big hunky self. Last time I saw him he was so beautiful and boy is this a long time without beef cake! Lol