It's cool, huh! This morning I heard from an ex who I haven't heard from in literally years! He emailed my old account, which I rarely check.. And said that he was thinking about my mom all day, and how kind she was to him! He was actually one I was hoping to hear from one day, as we lost contact and I really valued him as a person. I LOVE THIS WORLD WE LIVE IN!!

Exhibit A is totally RS ing you.
That put aside though, I think it's amazing that the universe showed you exactly what you need to do to get your guy, including all the scenarios : what happens where you're not attached to the outcome, dude runs after you. What happens when he's needy and clingy, you run away from him. What happens when he's cleaned his vibration and completely ignores what is - you don't mind him as much and actually enjoying having him around.

I find it so fascinating. My guy has been sick all week, I am naturally nurturing so I checked on him regularly - if I didn't know what I know about LOA and if I hadn't read Neville I'd be cursing the bones of that man right now...but what good does it make... Interestingly though, using Neville's technique I find it easier to get back on track and not get too caught up on what is...

Back to your story though... You now have an exact blueprint of how to get your guy all crazy about you.... Of what I gather, don't care too much ... 

Cherished wrote:

So. A few months ago when I began to really focus on attracting my guy, I met another guy who was rather gorgeous. Let's call him Exhibit A!  He was very handsome, had a great job and was extremely charismatic. I said to the universe "yes, he's great! Bring me more of this stuff, how cool to rendezvous with gorgeous men throughout my day!!" Anyway, he found me on FB and friend requested me. Of course I said yes! Obviously my heart belongs to someone else, but who doesn't like some lovely attention from an adorable boy?! 

First point I'd like to make.. Be careful what you wish for lol!

A few weeks later, my colleague randomly asked me to meet at a cafe really far out of my way. I never go there. Guess who was there? Exhibit A. Not only was he there, he was very engaging and quite taken with me. I was attending a work meeting, and later when I checked my phone he had messaged me. He thought I was beautiful. I just sent back a thumbs up and responded "shhhhh, I'm in a meeting." He sent me 5 more messages. Uh oh, he's hooked! I ignored him. I actually became really annoyed and very turned off, he said he desperately wanted to see me. I let him talk to himself on messenger for days and days. I eventually told him no, I wasn't interested so please stop messaging. He spent the next month texting me on and off. At first he was upset and disappeared for a while. Then he reappeared. He was very open and confident in the fact that he wants me badly. He totally ignored my rejection, over and over! But now he wasn't upset. Instead, kept sending me lovely, happy texts lol.

Anyway, last week we saw each other again at a function. And what I find interesting is that I'm no longer annoyed with him. For a while there he was a complete turn-off, but I feel differently now. I actually have warmed to the guy again. I don't want to be with him, but he's managed to basically behave like a a happy stalker, and now I actually must admit I quite enjoy hearing from him!

So from an LOA perspective, let's look at what's going on. I totally said to the universe bring me more of that! It was DEFINITELY delivered. The very same guy is completely infatuated with me! Good news for all of us trying to attract a specific person! I'm pretty sure if I asked him to give me his leg, he would saw it off and hand it to me right away 😂 I mean, he is BESSOTTED with me. And look at my energy. Am I obsessed in trying to attract him? NO! I simply commanded the universe to bring me more of that! When I knew very little about the power of commanding the universe!! And I let it go, confident I would meet similar guys to him in the future. And I got HIM! In spades!
My question.. How do we best emulate this kind of energy, this total indifference I suppose?' Because I didn't for one second worry or doubt or yearn for him, and he is obsessed with me! What can we learn from this, in trying to attract a specific person?

From his perspective- he saw me, I was ITV, he was ITV= attraction. Universe drew us together. His energy was off, he was wanting and needy and annoying= I rejected him. He's gone  away, decided to get happy again, and is probably doing RS on me without realising at all (imagining scenarios with us etc..) Which would explain why now I am feeling much warmer towards him.

What are your thoughts?! 😊💜

 
It seems like I have no problem attracting pretty girls.... Even 4 of my exs I had somewhat long relationship with cameback.  I have a gorgeous who keeps asking me to go out but I have declined.  I am focusing on myself and think about my lover.   I want to get to the point where I am confident and not worry if I run into her or not.  I guess just let universe take care of me

Wow that's so interesting and it makes sense how we can attract anything or anyone. I think as long as we stay away from negativity we can emulate the same feelings of love that the guy had for you from our specific people!!

Thanks for sharing Cherished!!