So, today my guy came round and I had already decided to take action re: intimacy.  After weeks of getting on well and me doing the vibrational work, I knew 100% that I could do this.  So, I surprised him and we ended up having some passionate time together!  But, after it, he was quiet and said he needed time to choose his words.  Basically, he ended up saying he didn't know what I was 'hoping' for and that although I was sexy/attractive etc he was sorry re: anything more.  I wasn't surprised by this, and didn't say much, I just acknowledged how he felt and didn't add much.  Thing is, I didn't feel hurt about it and it does feel a bit different now?  But in a good, way, I feel clear and good.  And I think we are 'good'  It's been feeling to me like we're in a great relationship anyway, just that we weren't having any intimacy.  So, I stepped up my scripting and RS the last week re: intimacy and passion and we certainly had that today!  Later, I also said that I wasn't really focussed so much on the whole relationship thing, and just really 'wanted' to do what we did!  I even said we could do it again, and he seems up for it. lol   So, its all a bit weird, coz I've also been affirming that we're in love and getting some amazing synchronicities.  I made a committment to 'choose' him.  Can he fall in love with me again/have feelings even though we've both been changing a lot as people?  I know I've changed a lot vibrationally speaking.  What do you guys think?  Do I just keep on with my vibrational work re: a relationship with him or just see him for intimacy which I'd also be quite happy with at this stage. 

But I just want to say as well, that this is a FANTASTIC RESULT as well of all the work I've been doing and I'm pretty blooming pleased with myself!   Finally lived up to my signature!!!

Last edited by Susiewoo (7/10/2016 2:01 pm)