Butterfly16 wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

Butterfly16 wrote:

Oh... I don't get it..there were signs but nothing manifested? Tbh I feel at peace with myself now... I had s rubbish week last week where I felt a bit sad. But right now I feel calm and at peace with myself. Feels strange feeling like this, but it feels good. I'm ketting the universe do its thing xc

Yes, exactly. That's the reason why I say don't rely on signs. It's not that the universe says "Your desire is on the way to you" or at least not in any case. You know best, where your vibration is proportional to the vibration of your relationship. And if you are completely honest to yourself, you don't have to rely on signs, because you know how close you are.

 
How do u know how close u are? Is it dependent on how u feel, like I said I feel really calm and relaxed which is an improvement. I'm sleeping better, eating better, just doing my own thing and not feeling sad anymore, in my heart I want him but I'm fine xx

Yes, it's dependent on how you feel in general and how you feel about your desire. You surely noticed that you felt very good at some point in the past, but the million dollars haven't arrived yet. I see it this way: Your feeling in general is your speed and your focus your direction. When you focus on your perfect relationship and you feel very happy, it has to come and it will come quickly. When you feel okay, but you still focus in the right way, it has to come as well, but it takes a little longer. When your focus is on lack, you can't feel good - it's like a safety mechanism. You can't crash in what you don't want in full speed.

Dante94 wrote:

Sure, you can take it as a sign. However, another user here, Sanshi I think it was, recently said that signs are also manifestations. So, you seeing his name everywhere or you being right near his office means that  the Universe is bringing you closer; that you are (or were in the case of the driving near his office situation) on the path toward the right vibrational level to receive your desire.
For me, I used to see signs all the time: seeing the same model car as her all the time (which isn't a common car, by the way), seeing 11:11 or her birthdate all over the place, and I heard her name twice in the past week (which didn't end up being her, but lemme just say up until those two instances, she was the ONLY person I've ever even heard with that name), signs of which odds are so unlikely when you think about it but it's just plain freaky how they come about. But, like I said, signs are nice as indicators of your vibrational level. They'll find you and let you know where you're at. Recently though, I realized that I may be focusing too much on these signs; too much focusing on checking my vibrational level when I know it's already going up. So instead now, when I look up or look around when I'm at work or wherever, instead of seeing an 11:11 or her birthdate on a license plate, I expect to see her driving or walking or shopping where I work. I now focus on my manifestation as my sign of vibrational level because at this point I'm confident enough to know what feels good to me and what doesn't.
From what I can tell though, the Universe was on your side that time in June and it still is. You seem really ready to receive your desire and I guess all you gotta do is do the work. Do what feels right to you; those guilt-free, feel-it-in-your-gut things. Sing in the shower, dance at work, whatever. I feel that you're gonna get your love back pretty soon so keep ya head up!

Dante94,
So I was trying to have a better understanding of LoA and signs, I came across a video on youtube about how you should pick a specific sign like butterfly, white feather or songs, something specific only to you. Seeing these signs is an affirmation that you are on the right path or whatever decisions or questions you may have and you see it is a sign that you are on the right path and you should keep going. This helped explain it much better than seeing signs that just seemed random and made me more confused, but I put my faith in the Universe and have picked out a specific sign that only I would know to help me on my path.