Well, from what I've learned, do what makes you happy in the moment, Monis! If you FEEL that seeing other people in the meantime helps you feel better, less desperate, etc., then by all means do so! The Universe won't be confused! It KNOWS your TRUE DESIRE of being with your specific person that you LOVE. And the Universe will respond to you being happy and not in the zone of living life in the lack of not being with your love. Giving him space is good! This gives the both of you some time to raise y'all vibrations! Not sure if you're new to LoA so I don't know if I should like chuck all this stuff at you all at once. But, umm, if it helps, lemme know! That way I can hep some more.

But, just remember, what comes about happens in your mind and heart first. If you want a good tip, BELIEVE and FEEL that everything you do: all your decisions, all your actions, everything brings you closer to your LOVE! Wish you the best! Peace!

Yes, sometimes you can kinda feel yourself dip a little bit, especially when your mind isn't too used to the thinking and trusting that everything's gonna be alright. Journaling (as if you already have your desire) is a great way to train your mind to feel and believe that it is already done. Plus, it helps raise your vibration, which ultimately is the goal to getting your love back. Also, you can't fake the Universe. Like, it knows when you're smiling but feel like crap inside. I'm still kinda going through that too. But, the more you start seeing your life in a new light, through the perspective that everyone and everything is good and you treat everyone nicely, you'll find that things will start shifting and you will begin to feel a lot better and you won't ever have to worry about what the Universe is picking up from you because you're always gonna be flying high! Smile at everything! Visualization is great, too! I personally think it's my favorite because I like to think of the good times me and my love had except I think of it happening in the past tense but during our new relationship with each other (I dunno if that made sense lol). But, what helps me stay positive is, don't take things personally all the time, like interactions with cranky co-workers or angry customers, stuff like that. Just smile and wave. Smiling naturally helps you feel better. Take the ego out and brush that ish off your shoulder cuz you got this, girl! And always think positively and with love about your future with your desire. Remember: what you think and feel now, happens later. So, think responsibly! Always glad to hep when I can!

Umm, I say only go to a therapist if you think you really need a guide and you can't seem to fight your demons on your own. But, yeah, I've tried the 25 Day Challenge, but I think I wasn't quite in the best vibration for receiving since I still wasn't quite understanding if LoA yet. But I've started about 4 months ago and my life's gotten better ever since! Keep in mind, LoA isn't just for this one desire; it's for all desires! It's a lifestyle! Stay happy, fly high, and watch your life shift into a better, brighter place! Like I said earlier, if you wanna nake this easier so you feel like everything's getting better, believe that all your decisions help you get to your desire because once you put your wish out, the Universe begins to configure itself to meet your demands. All you gotta do is be happy and meet it at that vibe. And it'll all happen when it's bes for you in what we call divine timing. Hopefully, that helps a bit more..

Can I look at old photos of my love and I, during happier times for better visualization? Is it weird to pretend talk to your love? Thank you, you make it sound so easy haahaa! I appreciate your help

Wonderful! It is nice to meet likeminded individuals like yourself and I am so happy for your  guidance in this matter. I keep seeing his name almost everywhere, I asked the universe to give me a sign to show that I was on the right path and that there was love there. So I have now put full faith and trust into the Universe and know that everything will work itself out.

The funny thing is before I even met my love in person, we had just started talking via phone. During that time, it was around June, I decided to go on a drive needed a break from a family/friends gathering, I just needed some alone time. I was driving along a road and there were several offices and resturants nearby but I for some reason decided to stop at that specific area and turn around to go back home. It was weird because I found out later his office was near where I stopped, he never told me where he worked, exact  location or anything. I don't know if the Universe was trying to tell me something back then but I never told him that happend. But it didn't seem random nor a coincidence. So I'm still trying to figure out what it all meant.

Thank you for listening to me, how about yourself have you had any amzaing things like that happen, Universe sending signs?

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