You have set your desire, you said you have been feeling much happier.. So now it's time to let go of how or when. Time is really irrelevant, your focus should be on you and being the best you can be 😊

hellolovely78 wrote:

Hi everyone,

I'm fairly new to this forum but I'm feeling extremely done right now & figured I would reach out for help. I've been manifesting my man for a month. I've been growing more and more positive. Yesterday I saw my first Synchonicity. Today I woke up and was feeling ready to take on the world. I *knew* today was the day. I wrote my letter to the universe and then burned it. I was on a short drive (just a few blocks) and said to the universe, "if you heard me show me 3 cars" (three that match my man's car) and I saw them. I've been working so hard for a MONTH and I've been living "as if" and I've been so happy but I'm starting to feel as if I cannot do it any longer.

I think I need to fully, truly, let go of my desire for it to come. I don't doubt the universe but I am feeling not as happy or excited as earlier today.

Any advice?

So a month is a true blink if an eye compared to the time it took to break up. So it's OK it may take longer! Mine took 2 months and we have a kid! I was blocked and after like 3 weeks I was OK with it. I got happy w/o the fighting and he came back. But I did NO real work on me. Sure we hung out and it was cool, but we came back to the same mess.

The real turning point came when I ACCEPTED HIS position out of love. That is HARD. I wanted to blame him still but I didn't allow myself to appreciate you need to be away from me to heal and I need to not let that or you affect my Ned to be a balanced me.

Slowly but surely it became a "THING." He regularly called. I regularly decided if I wanted to take it. I kept doing things that felt good. I kept acceptance that he'd rather do other things without me and then he started checking in.

Now I still visualize and  love him but acceptance that at this moment he isn't ready helps me prepare for the fabulous me that he will die over! And if he doesn't I'm so well healed for the one that is! Its been 6 months now and I just learned acceptance was the key. You get the power back!