Hey so I'm totally with you on being so crazy in love it makes you do crazy things! No judgement here. But the more crazy things you do, the more you just appear crazy

The damage is done, please accept it! Everyone seems fairly in agreement to stop, breathe and think a sec. If she is for you, would she want you being thus way?

When me and mine broke up, I list my job, apartment, money and ,5 year relationship in 4 months. I was the definition of nuts. I took Tgerapy and even went to group JUST to screw my head back on from the whirlwind I had experienced. And out if it came the most uncomfortable amounts of fear and guilt you'll ever Imagine. Those two emotions Can ruin Everything!


My advice, although you love her....love YOU enough to take a sec and obsess over you!

Being left twice has to be hard and knowing you are full of emotions meaning purging and healing shoukd be the first order of business before the repair of your relationship.

I am sorry this hurts, but without addressing the pain first, nothing will makes sense love.

Cherished wrote:

Ok. So tell us what you ARE doing currently to change your limiting beliefs and resulting vibration?

I've been doing what I did when she cut me off and I got her back and I do ok for a day or 2 but then get back to anger and hurt.
During the day with my job, I read gas and electric meters so I'm alone traveling from house to house... I have things I want to do but doing a job 10/12hrs a day and just moving from house to house, your mind isnt occupied, I focus on things I want but in my mind it always ends up going back to the same thing and that is the hurt :/.
I am starting fresh hence why I'm back on here... getting her back I can do, done it twice before, its letting go thats hard even I believe I've done, I haven't TRULY done it!!

ShootingStar wrote:

Perhaps your problem doesn't lie in getting her, it lies in keeping her...what's the point in buying an ice cream if you're always going to drop it. Perhaps you need to try live and be a way that would keep her, not just get her. Perhaps you should look at your general demeanour, your attitude, your place in life...are you happy with where you are? Are you proud of who you are? Getting her back to lose her again is just a waste of time..not being able to maintain a relationship with her is torturing yourself. Find out what you need to develop in yourself to keep a relationship with her and she will fall into your world. Build a fire and she will come

:-) thank you. I have things I want to do, its keeping the mind focused on that and not on me and her and the pain.

Cherished wrote:

What are you actually hurt about?

Being cut off three times randomly, especially when she is that madly in love with me and how she can just do it. Also she everytime shes done it, she dates someone else. I'm thinking itsC more of how it makes me feel worthless... Cherished please help, you seem to the best person on here for advice. Were would you suggest I start?

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Scarlet Angel wrote:

You should be fine with the fact that at least she loves you so much. My love has moved on in physical reality. I sometimes feel so bad about it.
It wont be difficult for you to attract her back..  Just give yourself sometime to heal and let her realise that you are perfect for her. Just imagine you both completely into eachother and scare free..  All the circumstances will start rolling for you both..

Were not in contact at all in the physical reality, I just feel and know deep down that we are each others true love and soul mates. I've just made things so bad that I'm blocked from everything, she's changed her number and is currently with someone else. I'm start EVERYTHING again