1 - BooLala
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PLEASE HELP!!
First off, sincere apologies to everyone, I've been away for 2/3months.
Secondly I wont lie, part of my latest story was a lie. I did get my girl back. The story about her getting engaged and living with her and getting her back is TRUE and so was how I got her back first time, after 2/3months. The latter one about how I'm back with her was bullshit, in fact things have been worst than ever. Its been 12months nearly and things are so bad, I was on the verge of actually killing someone. Anyways, I want to apologise to everyone for lying about the latest story... I made things so bad, she's blocked me from Facebook(i don't go on it), changed her number and is dating someone else. Yes I know I can change the situation and done it twice before.
She IS my soul mate, my heart rips out my chest when I see her and I love her so much.
Basically I need help, everything thats happened between us is keeping me full of rage and I can't move on no matter how hard I try, my heart belongs with her... I've read articles and practiced everything possible on forgiveness and nothings worked. That is what is holding me back, forgiveness, please help!!
- Everythingisbeautiful
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Thanks for coming clean. Leave her alone and solely work on yourself. Don't look for a quick fix and no techniques on winning her back. You're trying to heal yourself and the best investment for a long healthy relationship is to deal with what's going on you. Try EFT on YouTube on forgiveness and anger. Really invest in it and do it daily. Read ask and it is given. Things will change, but you'll have to put in the work to get there.
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That explains why you were so emotionally involved with your "friend"...
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Re: PLEASE HELP!!
When you were asking for advice for your friend...were you really asking for advice for yourself?
- BooLala
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Everythingisbeautiful wrote:
Thanks for coming clean. Leave her alone and solely work on yourself. Don't look for a quick fix and no techniques on winning her back. You're trying to heal yourself and the best investment for a long healthy relationship is to deal with what's going on you. Try EFT on YouTube on forgiveness and anger. Really invest in it and do it daily. Read ask and it is given. Things will change, but you'll have to put in the work to get there.
Ive not spoke to or attempted anything for over a month now. She's always on my mind and I just feel so alone, generally in life. I've got her back twice now, just this time I'm held back by things thats happened between us :/
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Thread Starter- BooLala
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When you were asking for advice for your friend...were you really asking for advice for yourself?
Yep, it was me all along I was wanting help. I am my own best friend and own worst enemy. I wouldn't mind with what we been through and I got her back twice, just this time I'm struggling and can't let things go no matter what I try. Feeling alone and the thoughts I've had and the things I've been close to doing is not right and only gonna hurt me and those around me
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Thread Starter- holistichealing
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Sweet one, I sense fear and anxiety from you. As if there is something that is not sitting right with you. Something that does not resonate with you.
A King only bows down to his Queen.
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Funny, I had a feeling your 'friend' was really you.
Why did you lie about your success story?
- PowerOfLove
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If she is truly your soulmate, then don't you want to love her unconditionally? Don't you want to love her regardless of her mistakes? Isn't it wonderful you play an important part in her journey of growth? You can't ever lose what is yours so you will know if she truly is yours then your relationship journey is always working out for your highest good... There will be lessons to learn along the way of course. Forgiveness is not something that can be forced, its something that will happen when the time is right and you're in the right frame of mind to allow it. So take some time off this subject, focus on yourself for a while and work on raising your vibrations because I can sense a lot of hurt and anger in your post. Once you reach a better feeling state, you will be more open to expressing unconditional love because you'll realise that's who you truly are at your core... A forgiving being full of unconditional love.
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- BooLala
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If she is truly your soulmate, then don't you want to love her unconditionally? Don't you want to love her regardless of her mistakes? Isn't it wonderful you play an important part in her journey of growth? You can't ever lose what is yours so you will know if she truly is yours then your relationship journey is always working out for your highest good... There will be lessons to learn along the way of course. Forgiveness is not something that can be forced, its something that will happen when the time is right and you're in the right frame of mind to allow it. So take some time off this subject, focus on yourself for a while and work on raising your vibrations because I can sense a lot of hurt and anger in your post. Once you reach a better feeling state, you will be more open to expressing unconditional love because you'll realise that's who you truly are at your core... A forgiving being full of unconditional love.
Without a doubt, no matter what, she is my soul mate. My feelings never changed for her, they've just gotten stronger. I am full of hurt and anger and that is what is holding me back
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