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Anabe91 · 7/05/2016 8:44 am

I manifested him back to my life after 8 months of complete no contact..( we never had a relationship just flirting etc) He broke up with his girlfriend and approached me again.. We are in distance,he came at my town and we went out for coffee.. Then we were texting,he was recording songs and send them to me..with small steps there was a progress.. but he was quite reserved cause he was expecting a transfer at his job.. The transfer came, and it's a lot more far away from my town.. After some days he became more distant.. When i texted him he was talkative but just friendly.. Last weekend he came to my town because he had something to do.. He texted me as soon as he arrived at night and came to see me while i was out with my friends..he was very nice,and talktive but just friendly and he was mentioning the transfer and how far it is.. I texted him the next day, and asked him to go for a coffee before he leaves..we went out and he mentioned that he doesn't want to do a long distant relationship,cause his last relationship was long distance and it was exhausting..and also that the plain tickets are very expensive and he can't afford coming.. So we kept it in friendly terms and said our goodbye..
At the beginning i was saying that it's over and i will move on..but..i want so much to try it..
He is single, i'm single..i like him he likes me.. It's unfair.. But he is the kind of person that if he decides something it's very difficult to change his mind..

What are your advices guys? To be honest after we start talking again i was doubting a lot, i didn't believe we will end up together..and i was afraid the distance..
Is it too late? Cause he already took his decision..

big_blue · 7/05/2016 8:56 am

With LOA, nothing is impossible! Keep him in your focus. Be patient, the universe is working in your favor if you keep your feelings as though you have him. Don't worry, don't doubt. Just BELIEVE that everything will work out because it will and it is!

Anabe91 · 7/05/2016 9:04 am

big_blue wrote:
With LOA, nothing is impossible! Keep him in your focus. Be patient, the universe is working in your favor if you keep your feelings as though you have him. Don't worry, don't doubt. Just BELIEVE that everything will work out because it will and it is!

At the begining when we were talking, sometimes when i was strating worrying,doubting etc. i managed to get back to positivity and trust and everything was fixing immediately!! But the last weeks i think i had put to much energy in the story and that's why things unfold like that..I just don't want to spend another 8 months or so..as it took me the first time to manifest him out of the blue..
And i was thinking..maybe when i manifested him..he was at the same wavelenght with me when he broke up,that's why i managed to attract him back to my life..Now that he is so sure about his decision,doesn't that mean that he is in a different wavelenght?

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Anabe91 · 7/05/2016 9:27 am

wolf wrote:
Anabe91 wrote:
big_blue wrote:
With LOA, nothing is impossible! Keep him in your focus. Be patient, the universe is working in your favor if you keep your feelings as though you have him. Don't worry, don't doubt. Just BELIEVE that everything will work out because it will and it is!

At the begining when we were talking, sometimes when i was strating worrying,doubting etc. i managed to get back to positivity and trust and everything was fixing immediately!! But the last weeks i think i had put to much energy in the story and that's why things unfold like that..I just don't want to spend another 8 months or so..as it took me the first time to manifest him out of the blue..
And i was thinking..maybe when i manifested him..he was at the same wavelenght with me when he broke up,that's why i managed to attract him back to my life..Now that he is so sure about his decision,doesn't that mean that he is in a different wavelenght?
His "wavelength" does not matter.
Align with your desire meaning become happy no matter what it takes,
without contradiction, and you will see a change of attitude from him that matches you.
Don't give him a script in which he acts not in your favor
aka what you're doing right now by worrying about him.
Focus on you and whatever you expect from him,
you will get, so expect this to turn out in your favor whatever the case.

So i should expect that he somehow changes his mind really soon and wants to try it,right?

Anabe91 · 7/05/2016 10:11 am

No it's not confusing at all! It makes absolute sense..i agree! I'll do so then.. the only tricky thing now is that after the no contact,the last 2 months i got used to communication and now getting back to no contact it's frustating.. I'm a little impatient in getting back to how the things were unfolding before the transfer.. I wish it could be as quick as things were fixed when i was getting back to positivity for some small things betwwen us..(ex.he didn't text today etc.). Guys thank you so much for replaying!! Your advices helping me so much

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