iinikkii wrote:

Em wrote:

Well I'm not sure what your point is, then.

It IS irrelevant but it's just harder to get to that unwavering belief that we can have them, as compared to if they were single.

My point is, if LOA is 100% consistent ( which it is) then that means nothing is "easier" or "harder"
As Abraham would say.." It's just as easy to create a castle as it is a button" So.. Yah. That was my point 😁

The problem isn't that one thing is harder to create than another. The problem is our conditioning. We have practiced our whole life to observe reality and now someone tells us that we are supposed to do something completely different. That's hard to do, because it's a habit, and maybe it's even worse than a habit. It's more a addiction. On a physical level, our body gets used to the chemical substances that cause the emotions. I sometimes really feel that my body wants to get back to the emotional state it is used to. So we are fighting against very strong thought habits here. The problem is never LoA, we are the problem.
 

Em wrote:

Well you said that way better than I ever could Sanshi!

We are born and taught to think "logically", and to go against something that is so natural to us is actually incredibly hard.

We are taught to think logically, but not born to. Look at the children. They don't care about logic. They can fly, they are this person in one moment, and that person in the next. Our nature is to be dreamers. We all have been heros, princesses, knights, cowboys/girls, but then they have deformed us so that we fit in into a deformed world. Logic is useful, but it is not made to estimate the future and that's exactly the problem. We think in probabilities instead of possibilities and our experience and logic says us that it has to be easier to get someone who is single. That's complete nonsense from a LoA perspective, but our brain can't simply start to think in new patterns. We have to train it.

Susiewoo wrote:

Hi everyone, I've been feeling so high but had just decided to check my guys FB profile page and have seen he's actually got his relationship status as 'single'   I think my balloon has just burst   It's not like we even ever had 'in a relationship' as a status either for the last 2 years. Me thinks he just wants to move on???  Why am I bothering?

oh fuxx Susiewoo, sorry I'm just seeing this now because I had been having a long day today!!
wish I could be there RIGHT AWAY when you posted this.

Just wanna say, I'm sending you all the LOVE AND POSITIVE ENERGY to you okay (okay maybe not all, I'll give you 50% is that okay? leave some to me  )

as most people are already saying...yeah, YOU DON'T NEED  TO CHECK HIS STUFF.
I actually haven't clicked into my guy's ANY social media AT ALL. I even PURPOSELY clicked on the option on facebook and chose "do not show this person's feed on my home page" or something.
that's how determined I am.

because honestly, for LoA to work, you have to, musttttttttt ignore the PRESENT.
present does NOT MATTER. because your reality that you created in your mind matters MORE. 

sending you love and positive enery girl <3 
xoxo

You will achieve it!

Susiewoo,

we all love you and will provide all our support, okay? 
we're a fam!!!

and you're my horny sister......