SydneysMommy wrote:

So he posted single? You can too?

A single man is easier to attrack than a married one, or on ein a relationship...GO get your man! Try to remember, the old realtionship is GONE, DEAD, OVER! Cotton wrote a super post about it.. KISS HIM GOODBYE. The new you is going to knock his socks off! I know how bad it feels. I am always all over the place, until i reread her post...If the old relationship is dead, you have a chance to create a new one!

This seems a little contradicting to the other advice that has been given all over the forum. Him being single/ or in a relationship/ or married is irrelevant. So I'm unsure why you refer to is as being easier??

Sanshi wrote:

iinikkii wrote:

SydneysMommy wrote:

So he posted single? You can too?

A single man is easier to attrack than a married one, or on ein a relationship...GO get your man! Try to remember, the old realtionship is GONE, DEAD, OVER! Cotton wrote a super post about it.. KISS HIM GOODBYE. The new you is going to knock his socks off! I know how bad it feels. I am always all over the place, until i reread her post...If the old relationship is dead, you have a chance to create a new one!

This seems a little contradicting to the other advice that has been given all over the forum. Him being single/ or in a relationship/ or married is irrelevant. So I'm unsure why you refer to is as being easier??

It's easier to believe.

All I'm saying is this is where people get confused. On one thread we hear it's irrelevant and doesn't matter, and then on another thread we hear it's easier if they are single. Not trying to start an argument.. I just know that it causes confusion for those who's guys ARE currently in a relationship/ verses being single

Last edited by iinikkii (7/01/2016 4:56 pm)

All things are equally possible in terms of LOA, but we are still human and some things are just simply easier to believe in.

If you could choose between winning £2 on the lottery, or £2,000,000, which one would you have the most trouble believing in?

Last edited by Em (7/01/2016 5:16 pm)

Sanshi wrote:

iinikkii wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

It's easier to believe.

All I'm saying is this is where people get confused. On one thread we hear it's irrelevant and doesn't matter, and then on another thread we hear it's easier if they are single. Not trying to start an argument.. I just know that it causes confusion for those who's guys ARE currently in a relationship/ verses being single

All people here are giving advice to the best of their ability. Take that with you, that resonates and leave the rest behind. I know that it can be confusing and discouraging sometimes, especially in the beginning stages when the faith in LoA isn't that big, but we have to choose what we want to believe, in the end. All opinions are there. There are people who don't believe in LoA, there are people who think that you can't attract a specific person, there are people who believe in free will and there are people who say circumstances don't matter at all. Choose the belief you prefer. Listen to your emotions. They are guiding you to your truth. If it feels bad, it's not true. For me, the thought that it is impossible to attract a specific person feels bad, so it can't be my truth.

Thanks Sanshi.. You always seem to word things in a way that is easy to understand! I appreciate that! You're completely right.. Everytime I see these imo contradictions it makes me feel like crap, so obviously that is my IB telling me that THAT isn't true for me!

Em wrote:

Well I'm not sure what your point is, then.

It IS irrelevant but it's just harder to get to that unwavering belief that we can have them, as compared to if they were single.

My point is, if LOA is 100% consistent ( which it is) then that means nothing is "easier" or "harder"
As Abraham would say.." It's just as easy to create a castle as it is a button"  So.. Yah. That was my point 😁