Susiewoo wrote:

So within a week, I have 'bumped' into my guy 3 times where it was unplanned, lol

It always amazes me how the universe just manages to time it perfectly that when I happen to finally get into the shop, my love just 'appears' - that happened twice this week, and earlier this evening, he hadn't been able to get in touch with me today due to wifi connection being down and there I was just having popped into the shop and I come out he's walking across the street!  So, we stop and have a wee chat!   And he tells me that finally he's getting a phone sorted so he can text folk again.  Yesterday he had said 'I wish I had a phone again' and I said 'I wish that you did too'  that was a quick manifestation as that was just lastnight.  And this morning we couldn't in touch to arrange our swim lesson/practise so I guess he finally realised the necessity of having a phone again.  And that will mean more regular contact from him again!!! 

I've also been reading that the mars retrogade is finally over???  And that things are going to be smoother now.  I think what happened between us was during a stressful 'spring cleaning' time.  Now, it just seems as though there is absolutely no reason to not be together.  We are always getting on great, I KNOW that we can communicate better than we ever did and have learned from past errors.  It's a wonderful freeing feeling.  I think a lot of people may quit once a relationship starts bringing up 'growth' but this is really the 'start' of the best yet to come, a deepening level of the relationship, the next phase after the honeymoon period.  But, what happens is people get identified with their stuff or the other persons stuff and then think that things aren't working anymore.  But its not that, it's just 'growth', the love has brought you to a new place, has made you grow and is working through you to resurface old limiting beliefs/fears/past hurts/defensiveness etc.   I realise now that maturity is about loving unconditionally 'through' these periods in a relationship.  You're supposed to go through them with a deeper realisation of loving the whole person including so called 'faults' which is really just contrast showing up so you can also learn to appreciate it!  Does this make any sense? 

Anyway, I'm happy but wonder if he will also realise that there really is NO problem between us, lol

Tell me more about Mars please!!!... That´s my planet and also my BF´s. 

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Last edited by Susiewoo (6/29/2016 3:48 pm)

omg I almost thought I'm the only obsessed one over here on horoscopes lol
but yes I also read about Mars retrogade being over too!
I'm a cancer and for many MANY websites, it suggests that my most romantic weekend would be on June 25-26, but like yeah, nothing happened I'm like ah fuxx haha I just had dinner at me and his favourite restaurant by myself HAHAHA

"It's a wonderful freeing feeling.  I think a lot of people may quit once a relationship starts bringing up 'growth' but this is really the 'start' of the best yet to come, a deepening level of the relationship, the next phase after the honeymoon period. "

^ I'm so glad you wrote this, COMPLETELY agree (I've never asked you much details about your relationship but maybe enlighten me a bit, I have a feeling we're going through VERY similar situations. VERY similar indeed.