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feel like giving up
our 6 year anniversary is july 1. if i had it all my way my love would reach out to me. he would tell me to meet him at the place we first met on the day of our first meeting. how can i stay open to feeling "as if" for this? does he remember? does he think about us? is he thinking about our anniversary as i am? how do i not feel defeated?
p.
- holistichealing
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Re: feel like giving up
Sweet one, do not give up. Say he doesn't show up on your anniversary, but he shows up after. To make it up to you he takes you out, gives you flowers and gives you his biggest confession. I understand the importance of the anniversary. But is that more important than his very being, the person you love?
A King only bows down to his Queen.
- piggy720
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Re: feel like giving up
When you want to give up, don't.
When you want to give in, don't.
Does he still remember? yes.
Does he think about you two? yes.
Is he thinking about your anniversary? yes.
but is he going to do anything? maybe not, but just because he doesn't, doesn't mean you need to give up! Good things take time to happen 
Right now, just focus on yourself being happy, keep yourself busy, keep up with the positive energy! Focus on the HAPPY RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM which is the reality in your head.
Ignore the "now" right now that you see with your physical eyes, because that doesn't matter at the moment.
When you feel like negative emotions are taking over, "Breathe, Have Faith, Believe"
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Re: feel like giving up
piggy720 wrote:
Right now, just focus on yourself being happy, keep yourself busy, keep up with the positive energy! Focus on the HAPPY RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM which is the reality in your head.
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This! You can't focus on the happy relationship and feel bad. You can't "feel as if" and remember what is right now at the same time. If you feel bad, you are not focusing on what you want but on the absence of it and that's what you are attracting in this moments.
Make July 1st a special day for YOU. Hey, it's a Friday. What's about a trip to another city with someone you love or just on your own? Do something you really enjoy and try not to think about it so much. On July 2nd the world looks far better, trust me. I know what I'm talking about, the anniversary with my ex was on my birthday! And I am still alive.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
- holistichealing
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Re: feel like giving up
Oh yes, one more thing. I re-read one of your questions. As you know I am always promoting self love and being happy on here, I always try my best to emphasize it being the secret ingredient to success. But aside from that, you can act as if by scripting as if you spent your anniversary with him once your mood is back up.
A King only bows down to his Queen.
Veronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com