PrettyFlamingo wrote:

RollingRock33 wrote:

And yup.still low. Trying to stay positive though. Having trouble believing shes on her way, but trying hard to be out of this "current reality"

Here's a thought - DON'T.  Don't try believing she's on her way.  (that doesn't mean she isn't but doesn't your brain need time out?)

Don't think about her.  Don't do techniques and visualisation.  Stop thinking about her, leave it alone, get on with your job or studies or whatever you do, your friends, whatever you do.  Take some time off it.  You will find a sense of relief, I am sure.  Make your "current reality" bloody brilliant.  

Come back to it later (attracting her back etc) when you feel better, feel different.  It won't change anything.  She's not going anywhere.  Aren't you knackered with it all?

Wow. That sounds like a really good idea thank you. And yes I am unnaturally emotionally drained.

Sam wrote:

RollingRock33 wrote:

Sam wrote:

Try to adopt the assumption that everything is always working out for you. If you can do this, then no matter what happens, it will always end up in a resolution that pleases you.

With the LOA, you get what you focus on. So if you continue to place importance on and analyze your circumstances, then you will keep receiving more situations for you to piece apart with your questions and concerns.

So instead, assume that everything is always working out in your favor, no matter what is currently happening. Then you will indeed attract things to work out for you constantly.

For example, in this situation with the Snapchat, don't question if it was a message for you or if it means she's missing you, just assume that it's true. And it will be.

Thank you Sam! Trying hard to stay positive and believe that. 

I've noticed I always have some sort of anxious feeling in my gut, no matter when or where I am, no matter what's on my mind. Will that "pain" hinder me from manifesting things in general?

Thanks so much!

Yes, the pain will hinder you because pain and anxiety are low vibe. Those emotions stem from fear and fear is the opposite of love.

It's my belief that for anyone to be able to attract someone back, they first have to truly heal from the break up and be happy on their own.

That is why you've received so much advice on raising your vibration. But the thing is, you can't just hold a good vibe for a few days and expect everything to work out or get your vibe up so you can contact her, and then think that will prompt a positive response from her. Because all the fear will still exist below the surface. It's resistance and it will block your girl from coming to you.

I think Flamingo's advice earlier about holding off on her for a bit is great. I mean, isn't this exhausting for you?

Thank you. Even if I have a high vibration going, which I've noticed, I'll still have kind of an ache in my gut. Maybe it comes from having an anxiety disorder? Either way, if I believe that she's on her way or I believe she'll come back, is that sense of knowing enough for her to come back? Totally wondering. Thanks.

Thanks guys! I really, really appreciate it. Trying to get my vibe higher. Spending time with the family Happy 4th by the way. 

 

holistichealing wrote:

RollingRock33 wrote:

Sam wrote:

Try to adopt the assumption that everything is always working out for you. If you can do this, then no matter what happens, it will always end up in a resolution that pleases you.

With the LOA, you get what you focus on. So if you continue to place importance on and analyze your circumstances, then you will keep receiving more situations for you to piece apart with your questions and concerns.

So instead, assume that everything is always working out in your favor, no matter what is currently happening. Then you will indeed attract things to work out for you constantly.

For example, in this situation with the Snapchat, don't question if it was a message for you or if it means she's missing you, just assume that it's true. And it will be.

Thank you Sam! Trying hard to stay positive and believe that. 

I've noticed I always have some sort of anxious feeling in my gut, no matter when or where I am, no matter what's on my mind. Will that "pain" hinder me from manifesting things in general?

Thanks so much!

Do you enjoy nature?

I do! Its relaxing.

holistichealing wrote:

RollingRock33 wrote:

holistichealing wrote:

Do you enjoy nature?

I do! Its relaxing.

It is good for anxiety, you should try being in nature often.

Thank you. Im parked in a lot around nature. Should i pray? PW?