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It's all love guys, just wanted to add my two cents
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DreamWalker wrote:
It's all love guys, just wanted to add my two cents
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Hey guys,
I understand that I have to take that first move of positivity. Trust me, I tried every morning. I used deliciouslyhappy's skills to tell myself that "my love is back...." and when things got messy, I tried to say "thankyou". I just got depressed easily. And I'm having exam right now, I'm soo stressed so when I'm in my exam hall all problems came up and so on, and I just don't know how to handle them. Well, at least I don't feel sad or anything. I just kinda accept he's not there so that's why I'm not extremely sad I guess. I really want him back even tho all the bad experiences came. I did decide to stay positive trust me. And I really love having you guys around to support me , I love you guys and thank you so much.
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Cherished wrote:
I want to throw an observation into the ring here.. You have 11 pages of awesome advice from a lot of people who are genuinely trying to help you manifest your desires. But you hit back each and every time with more and more negative stories. Do you see how LOA is helping you to create more of that? Imagine my surprise when I realised that actually you also have TWELVE pages of these same negative, destructive posts on a whole other forum? I am astounded that you are writing all of the things you don't want over and over and over and over, when you are actually AWARE of the fact that thoughts create things! You are one of a very fortunate group of people who understand that LOA exists. And yet you continue to use it to your detriment. Do you think it's possible to actually stop writing all of your negativity down? Because you are only perpetuating it. You're SCRIPTING you're future with every post you indulge in. Do you understand that?
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And nope, I've stop going other forum now. Because it's kinda killing me.
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Blessedck wrote:
DreamWalker wrote:
I agree with Cherished as well but Blessedck, there is no such thing as "too late" or "gone forever." The law never stops. I think we've all been where she is now and at least in my experience, all that helps is time. She's got to find that one thing that clicks for her. It is very easy to understand how the LOA works but it is very hard to actually consciously apply it when you don't have your emotions under control. That's a learned skill, roping in your emotions.
Hisoneandonlyone, I'm not going to tell you to snap out of it or anything, but you MUST AT LEAST take a step in the right direction. Start with what Cherished suggested, no more posting negative things. People are not going to want to help you if you don't show any sort of cooperation. Go through this post and really read and understand the advice you've been given.
We know this is hard, believe me. We're all in the same boat. You are not the only one having a hard time. We are all in this together.
If you're on the PLOA forum I suggest leaving. That place is full of negativity and you're better off without it.
Make the decision to take a step in the right direction.Dreamwalker, I totally agree with you. Sorry, I just meant to say that I don't want hisoneandonly to stay in this cycle of negativity.
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Hey to the both of you,
Thank you guys so so much. I will get out of the negative zone, I'm trying to get rid of the bad experiences and forget what he said.. it's all those that stops me.
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Awesome!!!
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Good for you! Can't wait to read βΊοΈ
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Is accepting him not being with me anymore is a good thing? Because I don't feel good about it. And is there any more ways to get rid of past bad experiences? The bad image of him just keep pops up in my mind, and it's hard to transform him to the one he used to be. I will feel like, " how would he go back to that person again?"
I know it's my mind keep on delaying my manifest, it keeps showing how I got hurt and the hurtful feelings. When I woke up, I immediately visualise he's back and apologising about what he did, I felt good for a lil while and there goes my brain again. I kinda felt better in the afternoon, I keep on listening to veronica's YouTube video. And before sleep I will visualise it one more time, but I would feel confused of what should I visualize, we're in LDR, I can't be imagining him come and hug me and say sorry and so on right? But through text? And I really don't know what else more I should visualise. He's coming back in 3 months, I still don't know should I visualize us together in that time?
I'm so sorry for so many questions, I just wanted to solve all these so I can't manifest him back sooner.
Last edited by Hisoneandonly (10/23/2015 6:00 pm)
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I should just giveup on him right... he just posted a picture on snapchat with a girl...he's moving on... what should i do...he really just dont love me anymore..i feel so hurt right now, it's an endless battle of the brain and the head. Maybe i shouldnt work so hard, he dont even seems like he cares. This is not what i want but why. I tried so hard.. i used to attract him back even he's with other girl and even when he said he chose the other girl over me,but this time the condition is totally different. Please tell me what should i do and think now.i felt so low self esteem because that girl seems so pretty.. maybe even better than i am.
Last edited by Hisoneandonly (10/23/2015 11:25 pm)
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But you see, you're just making it worse and worse by focussing on the things you see. So you create more of it. When you REALLY get it, you will be willing to it in the effort to stop looking at the unwanted for a while.