Cherished wrote:

I just want to remind you that you are not alone on this journey. Not are you the only person experiencing stress and doubt.  But what you will find if you look at other people's stories,  is that eventually they have decided that enough is enough.  And they have taken a stand against their own mind.  And in a very short timeframe,  by consistently reaching for the best possible thoughts they could, their reality has changed. Now, that's not to say your guy will immediately reappear. But life actually goes BEYOND your guy. With a few days of focus, your stress will become less, your happiness will increase, and LOA will allow you to access better and better thoughts and feelings.

 
Do you mean focus on my new story?

Blessedck wrote:

Hisoneandonly wrote:

Cherished wrote:

I just want to remind you that you are not alone on this journey. Not are you the only person experiencing stress and doubt. But what you will find if you look at other people's stories, is that eventually they have decided that enough is enough. And they have taken a stand against their own mind. And in a very short timeframe, by consistently reaching for the best possible thoughts they could, their reality has changed. Now, that's not to say your guy will immediately reappear. But life actually goes BEYOND your guy. With a few days of focus, your stress will become less, your happiness will increase, and LOA will allow you to access better and better thoughts and feelings.

 
Do you mean focus on my new story?

YES!!! Focus only on the amazing things you want in your life! Screw the past, can you go back? NO! Then why make your life miserable by constantly thinking about it! You can do this!

I have read people's thread and one I have seen is that, the thread starter tried so long and changed so much, but at last the thread starter give up on their desire, give up on their ex. It brings me down actually. I didn't see them manifest back their guy hmm..
 

I want to throw an observation into the ring here..  You have 11 pages of awesome advice from a lot of people who are genuinely trying to help you manifest your desires.  But you hit back each and every time with more and more negative stories.  Do you see how LOA is helping you to create more of that? Imagine my surprise when I realised that actually you also have TWELVE pages of these same negative, destructive posts on a whole other forum? I am astounded that you are writing all of the things you don't want over and over and over and over, when you are actually AWARE of the fact that thoughts create things! You are one of a very fortunate group of people who understand that LOA exists. And yet you continue to use it to your detriment. Do you think it's possible to actually stop writing all of your negativity down? Because you are only perpetuating it. You're SCRIPTING you're future with every post you indulge in. Do you understand that?

Last edited by Cherished (10/22/2015 7:37 pm)

I agree with Cherished as well but Blessedck, there is no such thing as "too late" or "gone forever." The law never stops. I think we've all been where she is now and at least in my experience, all that helps is time. She's got to find that one thing that clicks for her. It is very easy to understand how the LOA works but it is very hard to actually consciously apply it when you don't have your emotions under control. That's a learned skill, roping in your emotions.

Hisoneandonlyone, I'm not going to tell you to snap out of it or anything, but you MUST AT LEAST take a step in the right direction. Start with what Cherished suggested, no more posting negative things. People are not going to want to help you if you don't show any sort of cooperation. Go through this post and really read and understand the advice you've been given.

We know this is hard, believe me. We're all in the same boat. You are not the only one having a hard time. We are all in this together.

If you're on the PLOA forum I suggest leaving. That place is full of negativity and you're better off without it.

Make the decision to take a step in the right direction.

Last edited by DreamWalker (10/22/2015 9:49 pm)

DreamWalker wrote:

I agree with Cherished as well but Blessedck, there is no such thing as "too late" or "gone forever." The law never stops. I think we've all been where she is now and at least in my experience, all that helps is time. She's got to find that one thing that clicks for her. It is very easy to understand how the LOA works but it is very hard to actually consciously apply it when you don't have your emotions under control. That's a learned skill, roping in your emotions.

Hisoneandonlyone, I'm not going to tell you to snap out of it or anything, but you MUST AT LEAST take a step in the right direction. Start with what Cherished suggested, no more posting negative things. People are not going to want to help you if you don't show any sort of cooperation. Go through this post and really read and understand the advice you've been given.

We know this is hard, believe me. We're all in the same boat. You are not the only one having a hard time. We are all in this together.

If you're on the PLOA forum I suggest leaving. That place is full of negativity and you're better off without it.

Make the decision to take a step in the right direction.

Dreamwalker, I totally agree with you. Sorry, I just meant to say that I don't want hisoneandonly to stay in this cycle of negativity.