Cherished wrote:

"...... even we argue it will be something that we enjoy to do, he just love me unconditionally."

I wouldn't manifest arguments at all.. But that's just me.

 
Because I think that we can't avoid arguments right?
Anyways,
I was so detached just now, just play with my sister, watched movie, But when I realise that there's nothing happen I got down again, but I know it needs time..

How about the prediction thing hmm? I shouldn't care right?   (errr)

Last edited by Hisoneandonly (10/16/2015 4:33 am)

Just putting my 2 cents because I realte a bit with your fear doll I have been trying something in the past few days that really help the doubts and anxiety.

- I compare my insecurities to little creatures called gremlins and I gave them a name each - ridiculous names so it helps. And when I feel one come up I call it by name and pet talk to it - it significantly reduces the feeling of worry and as long as I feel it I talk to it like I would to a little yappy dog that's just making noise for attention

- the other thing I have been doing is repeating these to myself : I can't see the tangible proof yet but I believe. I don't know how things will come together but it believe they will. I don't know for sure that he loves me but I believe he does. I don't know when he will declare himself to me but I believe he will and oh boy it's going to be awesome ! I'm looking forward to the surprise and believe it will happen though I have no evidence for now I choose to believe.... And keep repeating yourself these statements because they're reassuring .. It's hard to convince yourself that it's okay when it obviously isn't - it's easier to tell yourself though it isn't right now you choose believe it's getting there , even though you don't know how or can't see it yet -


Hope it helps and read neville goddard - I cannot explain how much he is changing my life and perspective - oh and stay away from the other forums - I ised to go to be inspired by success stories but then I realized a lot of the stories are sob stories and people judging each other it just started making me feel low so I stopped - I only come here and only focus on titles that resonate - if I see a post that feels negative I don't read it, unless I have advice in which case I read a few lines to get a Crux of the issue and say what I have to say -

But regardless of what anyone says does or tries to convince you of , that which will make the difference is what you decide is true for you - regardless of what your reality is like.
good luck and lots of love : I visualize you in the beautiful relationship you're manifesting for yourself ! Xo
Deelish'

Deliciously_happy wrote:

Just putting my 2 cents because I realte a bit with your fear doll I have been trying something in the past few days that really help the doubts and anxiety.

- I compare my insecurities to little creatures called gremlins and I gave them a name each - ridiculous names so it helps. And when I feel one come up I call it by name and pet talk to it - it significantly reduces the feeling of worry and as long as I feel it I talk to it like I would to a little yappy dog that's just making noise for attention

- the other thing I have been doing is repeating these to myself : I can't see the tangible proof yet but I believe. I don't know how things will come together but it believe they will. I don't know for sure that he loves me but I believe he does. I don't know when he will declare himself to me but I believe he will and oh boy it's going to be awesome ! I'm looking forward to the surprise and believe it will happen though I have no evidence for now I choose to believe.... And keep repeating yourself these statements because they're reassuring .. It's hard to convince yourself that it's okay when it obviously isn't - it's easier to tell yourself though it isn't right now you choose believe it's getting there , even though you don't know how or can't see it yet -


Hope it helps and read neville goddard - I cannot explain how much he is changing my life and perspective - oh and stay away from the other forums - I ised to go to be inspired by success stories but then I realized a lot of the stories are sob stories and people judging each other it just started making me feel low so I stopped - I only come here and only focus on titles that resonate - if I see a post that feels negative I don't read it, unless I have advice in which case I read a few lines to get a Crux of the issue and say what I have to say -

But regardless of what anyone says does or tries to convince you of , that which will make the difference is what you decide is true for you - regardless of what your reality is like.
good luck and lots of love : I visualize you in the beautiful relationship you're manifesting for yourself ! Xo
Deelish'

 
Hi Thank you!  that's so kind of you! And I will try to use your way to talk to my fears. And thankyou so much for the visualise! Hope it can happen soon! 

Neville said we have to live in the way that it had happened so the world will shift to the reality i want?? But it's kinda hard, because I never experienced any ldr, so idk what should this be like.

I kinda miss him a lot.

Deliciously_happy wrote:

Hisoneandonly wrote:

Deliciously_happy wrote:

Just putting my 2 cents because I realte a bit with your fear doll I have been trying something in the past few days that really help the doubts and anxiety.

- I compare my insecurities to little creatures called gremlins and I gave them a name each - ridiculous names so it helps. And when I feel one come up I call it by name and pet talk to it - it significantly reduces the feeling of worry and as long as I feel it I talk to it like I would to a little yappy dog that's just making noise for attention

- the other thing I have been doing is repeating these to myself : I can't see the tangible proof yet but I believe. I don't know how things will come together but it believe they will. I don't know for sure that he loves me but I believe he does. I don't know when he will declare himself to me but I believe he will and oh boy it's going to be awesome ! I'm looking forward to the surprise and believe it will happen though I have no evidence for now I choose to believe.... And keep repeating yourself these statements because they're reassuring .. It's hard to convince yourself that it's okay when it obviously isn't - it's easier to tell yourself though it isn't right now you choose believe it's getting there , even though you don't know how or can't see it yet -


Hope it helps and read neville goddard - I cannot explain how much he is changing my life and perspective - oh and stay away from the other forums - I ised to go to be inspired by success stories but then I realized a lot of the stories are sob stories and people judging each other it just started making me feel low so I stopped - I only come here and only focus on titles that resonate - if I see a post that feels negative I don't read it, unless I have advice in which case I read a few lines to get a Crux of the issue and say what I have to say -

But regardless of what anyone says does or tries to convince you of , that which will make the difference is what you decide is true for you - regardless of what your reality is like.
good luck and lots of love : I visualize you in the beautiful relationship you're manifesting for yourself ! Xo
Deelish'

 
Hi Thank you!  that's so kind of you! And I will try to use your way to talk to my fears. And thankyou so much for the visualise! Hope it can happen soon! 

Neville said we have to live in the way that it had happened so the world will shift to the reality i want?? But it's kinda hard, because I never experienced any ldr, so idk what should this be like.

I kinda miss him a lot.

It's fine if you miss him - in an ldr you'd still miss him - it's part of being in that kind of relationship. So you can integrate that in the visualizing that you are in a relationship with him. So you miss him because he's far not because you're not with him - can you feel the difference ? If you can focus that fact that you're missing him because you haven't seen him in a while rather than because you're not with him you're already experiencing a shift

Every challenge you can use as an opportunity to feed into your visualization. Tonight I was in a club and at some point I missed him - so I chose to imagine what it would be like if he were around or what it would feel like if he'd been traveling .. It made the distance between us different and more in alignment with the idea that we're together.

There was a pretty girl there that I kind of felt insecure arond so I chose to imagine what it would be like with him being around naybe looking but still choosing to focus on me - felt much different

See what I mean

 Yes, I can see the different. And I totally understands it, it's something new that I can try.

When I wake up, I would still get to my phone because if we're together, I would do the same just to text him goodmorning and to check out what he told me about what have he done for the whole day, but I see no text. So it kinda hit me back to physical reality. And I will be like " when is he coming back..." and back to the circle again.

Last night, my car accidentally broke down again, I was thinking how would he do when he knows about this. And how would he care if he's around. Then I look back like how caring he is that he would rush to my house or call me and even bring me to repair my car..., then look to the recent days that how he treated me so badly, that he might just don't care...

Deliciously_happy wrote:

Hisoneandonly wrote:

Deliciously_happy wrote:

It's fine if you miss him - in an ldr you'd still miss him - it's part of being in that kind of relationship. So you can integrate that in the visualizing that you are in a relationship with him. So you miss him because he's far not because you're not with him - can you feel the difference ? If you can focus that fact that you're missing him because you haven't seen him in a while rather than because you're not with him you're already experiencing a shift

Every challenge you can use as an opportunity to feed into your visualization. Tonight I was in a club and at some point I missed him - so I chose to imagine what it would be like if he were around or what it would feel like if he'd been traveling .. It made the distance between us different and more in alignment with the idea that we're together.

There was a pretty girl there that I kind of felt insecure arond so I chose to imagine what it would be like with him being around naybe looking but still choosing to focus on me - felt much different

See what I mean

 Yes, I can see the different. And I totally understands it, it's something new that I can try.

When I wake up, I would still get to my phone because if we're together, I would do the same just to text him goodmorning and to check out what he told me about what have he done for the whole day, but I see no text. So it kinda hit me back to physical reality. And I will be like " when is he coming back..." and back to the circle again.

Last night, my car accidentally broke down again, I was thinking how would he do when he knows about this. And how would he care if he's around. Then I look back like how caring he is that he would rush to my house or call me and even bring me to repair my car..., then look to the recent days that how he treated me so badly, that he might just don't care...

True you can think he doesn't care or his phone is not working so he has no way to find out.... Or I might not see evidence that he care but maybe if he knew he would care, i choose to believe he would. In the morning I didn't see a text but maybe he thinks about me in the morning but he doesn't dare to message me, I choose to believe he doesn't message because he's unable to do it or because he's wondering if he should ... I don't have proof that he care but it's nice to believe he does, so I believe he cares. I don't know if he'll message me but I believe that he might or he could when the time is right... Maybe I don't know for sure that this Loa works but I believe if I try that something could happen so I'll give it a shot for s bit l..

Can you tell the difference in how these feel I. Comparison to I see no message and he doesn't care ?

 
The difference is it sounds hopeful and happier and the other one sounds much sadder and hopeless...

But you have to believe something that you can't see right? I hate myself for keep finding evidence that he still cares. But it end up being hopeless..