PowerOfLove wrote:

Hi Piggy720,

My take on letting go is that it doesn't mean to let go of your desire, but rather let go of the doubts/resistance. 

Its that feeling of knowing your ex is coming back, having complete faith in it and so you no longer feel any worry or fear about it not happening. You go about your normal life with 100% faith he is on his way back to you. So you can still think about him and even do techniques if it makes you feel good - you don't need to let go of that. 

I think people tend to say you need to reach a state of "I don't care whether he comes back or not" because that's when it worked for them, but that's also the same state of having no resistance. When you don't care, you're not attached. When you're not attached, you no longer hold resistance and therefore allow it to find its way to you easier.

So I like to think of letting go as more "allowing in" - you let go of all your resistance so you can allow in your desire.

It seems like you're in a great state to be allowing in your desire so well done 

Ah, thank you for your prompt reply. 
This makes so much more sense to me!

Yes, perfect! I have no resistance or doubts! No worries, no uncertainty : )
I feel great and I'm full of love and positive energy inside myself, and I am determined and sure that we will be back together.

I hope I'm on the right track?

Tizme wrote:

That is a great question and great clarification. I have also had a difficult time "letting go" not truly understanding what that means. I think about my ex everyday but now it's not in a negative place, shame, guilt, regret.  I love that thinking of S makes me smile now.
 

Yeah! Same here, Tizme! 

I think about him everyday, I talk to his picture as if I am talking to him haha
When I think about him, all I feel are happiness, joy, love.
I would've think I'm doing the right thing?
Because I really don't have that feeling of "oh it's okay I don't need him back" type of emotions.

I'm just very happy loving him. I love the me loving him lol does that even make sense...

Susiewoo wrote:

Thinking of your guy in a loving way is a wonderful thing to do!

awwwwww thank you thank you thank you 
This made me feel so much more confident and loving at the moment 
I feel so good now, with all the love and positive energy spilling out haha

Severis94 wrote:

I do the same with a picture, Piggy720. My familly and friends think I am nuts, but I don't care. He is on his way to you as my bf I.M. is on his way to me.

omg you're awesome, Severis94! haha high 5 
talking to his picture absolutely helps (in my opinion) hahaha

I'm sure your boyfriend is also on his way back to you!
xoxo