Yesterday after doing really well for the last couple of days concentrating only on the wonderful relationship I want with my guy and how he loves and adores me the question "is it even possible?" came back into my mind. But because I practiced the vibration of this lovely relationship for a while I received new thoughts about it I never had before and I want to share them with you.

Think about how you two got together. You got to know him and fell in love. You had only positive feelings towards him. When you did something beautiful together you repeated the scenes over and over in your mind. In my case it hasn't been so long ago, so I know exactly what I thought while coming closer with my guy. I analysed all the signs he showed me that he likes me, I repeated it over and over again in my mind, I talked about it with everyone who wanted to hear it (or not). I fantasized about our first kiss over and over again and it happened. Not like I visualised it but it still happened. I didn't do it to make it happen. I just did it because I enjoyed doing it. I can't speak for the guys here but I think every girl definitely can relate to this. Okay, now we know how we attracted them the first time.

Let's think about what many of us do now. They are very focused on what is happening right now and what happened in the past. "He didn't answer to my text, I haven't seen him in 5 months, what if he forgets about me? He didn call. He was rude. Why isn't he there yet eventhough I visualised for 2 hours yesterday?". Do you see how different the vibration is you are emitting now? You have never ever attracted anybody with this vibe and that's the reason you have to shift your focus.

You can't concentrate on him not texting because you get more of him not texting.
You can't concentrate on him being not there because you get more of him being not there.

Did you concentrate on stuff like that in the beginning? No! You had your own life and were busy with doing things. You highly enjoyed thinking and dreaming about him and even the shortest of his messages made you smile. When he was short with you, you remembered all the lovely messages that showed that he likes you and find you attractive and didn't give up on him directly. You have never thought: "We are not together now. That means it's impossible. We will never be together".

Remember the time before your relationship and do exactly what you did then. Even if you believe in free will isn't it better to do things right, so that you have the best chances to get your desired outcome than to struggle and feel bad for months and months?