Twin Flames has to be one of the most exhausting relationships out there. When you meet your soul mate it is nice and smooth and wonderful. Not with your twin flame. Yes, it feels magical but because you are halves of each other it can become very toxic. Why? Well, this is the in your face relationship about where you lack and what you need to do to grow. Quite honestly, as overwhelming as that sounds it is needed in order to become one with them.

Now not everyone meets their twin flame in one lifetime, but everyone eventually will regardless. My relationship with my beloved is that of a twin flame relationship. I mentioned how I dreamt about him before meeting him, in fact we both dreamt of each other before meeting each other. This tends to happen with twin flames. Also, eleven eleven is highly associated with twin flames. As well, as with alignment, and another purpose of eleven eleven is to also remind you of your soul mission if you feel you are on one.

So, it is essentially customary that eleven eleven exists somewhere in your twin flame relationship, or at least for mine it does. We met in 2011, and his birthday is the ninth month, mine is the second month. Nine plus two is eleven. So there is our eleven eleven. He goes by his first and second last name, I go by my middle and last name. Both equaling out to nine. I bring this up because there will be similar numbers in the relationship too.

Also, we are very much alike, but very different. Like a reflection, which is what your twin flame represents. When you fall for them you fall really hard for them, harder than you have ever fell for anyone. Then comes the fairy tale like stage. Which I definitely went through with him, it was so beautiful. But once our egos were back to reality, it began going sour. With us constantly pointing out problems to each other.

But like I said it is needed for maturity. Since they are apart of you they will have everything you lack and vice versa. Those are the areas in which you need to grow. Then comes the stage of runner and chaser. Majority of the time I am the chaser because I understand the importance of our relationship. I do not idolize it, but I have a deep sense of knowing it's importance. Even in such relationship the love will always remain, and that's the weird part. You can love them through all this exhaustion.

Then you go through the stage of acceptance and forgiveness. But then it can always go back and forth between this stage and then going back to running and chasing. Once you have matured though, you can finally reach oneness with them. In my experience with this, I truly accept the relationship because it taught me to appreciate all my areas in which I need to improve that he pointed out. My beloved and I are still growing though. We are not at the stage of oneness yet.

So another great thing to do is aside from working on improving myself individually I want to find soul mate friends to help me. A soul mates purpose is to help shape you, you don't entirely rely on them for this. But you can enjoy the experience of growth with them, and yes they don't always need to be a romantic experience. Now my main reason for bringing this up at all is because many believe that the twin flame relationship is the most beautiful, which is true, but it is also the most confrontational and exhausting. But you learn to appreciate it in the end.

Last edited by holistichealing (6/21/2016 10:51 am)