Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum » The next logical step..?

Scarlet_Kerouac · 6/20/2016 10:00 am

I'll admit I'm struggling a little, I sometimes wake up in a low mood and along with that comes negative thoughts etc, I'm on a weird roller coaster of shifting between feeling very empowered and strong in the knowing that H is coming back to me; and then reality (which I know I'm meant to be ignoring it's just so hard!) slapping me in the face with what is. What I'm confused about too is that Abraham says that your manifestation when it's coming will seem like the 'the next logical step'; I'm not sure how to reconcile with this as I guess I can't see that my manifestation, given that I've blocked him on facebook, had no other contact with him and he's seeing someone closer in age to him who just wants to party as he has basically told me he does right now..is?? I know, I know I'm living my old story right now..I'm frustrated with myself

Sanshi · 6/20/2016 10:18 am

I don't know how long exactly you are already on your journey but take you time. Don't stress yourself. Maybe it's possible to jump from completely depressed to always happy within a short period of time but most of us can't do it and that's okay. Accept where you are and know that it will get better every week and every month. It took me 7 months to stabilize my vibration, that's a long time but was it worth it? Hell yes. Be patient with yourself and know that you don't have to get where you want to be all at once. It will get easier with time.

I will give you an example for the next logical step: This morning I thought about the wonderful relationship with my guy and how lovely he is and how he adores me and while I was feeling all this wonderful emotions suddenly something changed. I got exactly this feeling that you have if you in a brand new relationship. You are in love, everything is perfect, you only see the positive in the other, you have never argued because it's the first week of your relationship. It feels light, easy and wonderful. I never ever had this feeling without having a new relationship. So wouldn't the next logical step be to have this relationship? Abraham never speaks in physical terms like "Okay, he sent you the message that he want to be back together and the next logical step is that you get back together". It's all about your vibration and your vibration is all about your thoughts and feelings.
Hope that helps.

Scarlet_Kerouac · 6/20/2016 10:29 am

Thank you Sanchi your replies always help a lot Yeah I guess if I'm honest I spent a whole year trying to get him back, I did several 30 day type things before but I know it was all from a place of needing him to come back and holding on so I think I was coming at it from all the wrong angle. I also did RS etc but in more of a love way. It's weird though too as I did do a lot for my own life in that time and even achieved a sort of celebrity status( in the underground music world at least) ;) but now I wonder if part of me thought all that would attract him back so I was definitely doing it for myself but also partly for him, if that makes sense? I have struggled with depression it's a lot better now but still struggle at times with lows which upsets me as I feel I'd be able to do much better with LOA if it wasn't for this, but obviously beating myself up and getting frustrated with myself doesn't help anything! I will be more patient with myself as you said to be, and see it all as more of a gradual process. Thank you again Xx

Scarlet_Kerouac · 6/20/2016 10:38 am

Also, I like your example of 'next logical step;' I have definitely had those sort of feelings before while visualising etc..it's just sustaining it that I need to work on!! I'm watching Neville Goddard's 'How to use your imagination' right now..it's odd that I live in my imagination so much with music/art and yet with THIS area of my life I find it difficult to.

Sanshi · 6/20/2016 11:07 am

You are welcome.
Isn't it wonderful to see why it hasn't worked out until now? It's a bit like Edison with his light bulb. He didn't saw himself as failing. He just added one way how it doesn't work to his experience. He didn't say "It's impossible" and gave up. He learned from his mistakes and it's great that you are analysing yourself and know that you weren't in the place to attract him back back then. Be honest with yourself and you know if you did something to get him back or for yourself or if you in the right place to attract him or not. Congrats to your success btw. =)

I don't think you have to sustain this feelings all the time, you just have to stop canceling them out with bad feelings about the subject.
It's funny that you mention Neville. I thought about bringing something up he wrote but didn't. Now I have to. I don't know in which of his books it was but he wrote that when a state awakes a feeling in you, the feeling itself has to have the state as consequence as well. I loved that concept. Have to search for the book.

Some areas are more difficult than others because you already practiced to concentrate on what you see. You think the same thoughts because you have thought them so often in the past and the subject is so important to you. Maybe try to live just a little more in your desired reality. When you find yourself thinking about him being with someone else or posting something on facebook shift your focus to what you prefer. And when you practiced that for a while do it more often until you barely think about what is now - and then what is right now has to vanish.

Scarlet_Kerouac · 6/21/2016 9:55 am

Yeah it is! It's weird too as I do feel I have manifested other things in my life. I have had success with RS on another guy in the past too (with weird results!) I guess, though I really liked theat guy I wasn't as much holding on and I did it in a more 'light' way which is kinda what I'm doing now with H this time around, I woke up feeling really good this morning so am currently milking that! And yes good anaology with Edison. I'm pretty stubborn person in that I don't tend to give up on what I want! Hence my successes I've experienced with music - I decided to ignore all my worries and fears and focus on it 100% (and thank you!!) I find Neville really inspiring and am listening to lots of Abe today too. Thanks again for your support I'm also telling myself and realising it's true that I am the one person I believe that can make H the happiest he's ever been x

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