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3 years of waiting on my first love
I started university 3 years ago and met a boy in my first year and we kinda of dated for couple of months, I caught feelings and said I wanted a relationship with him but he said not. Over the 3 years he was on and off with me, as in we would hook up but he would never commit to me and want to be in a relationship. He said he did not have those feelings for me and wants to be friends, during our time being on and off he treated badly and made me feel less confident about myself. This year I found out he was seeing someone and I decided to cut ties with him and said I didn't want to be friends either. We stopped talking as things ended badly and removed him of social media and everything. However I have always loved this guys from the day I met him. I have been aware of the LOA for a long time and so I wanted to get things better between him and me. I managed to achieve us being friends and hanging out however he is still seeing this girl and it has been a very long time now. I dont know what to do, is it possible to manifest him even if he is seeing someone? I keep hearing things about him and his girlfriend from our mutual friends and its making me feel sad and upset. I do believe the LOA does work but I feel so lost and helpless at the moment. I have been trying to be in a relationship with this guy for 3 years now, but only started using the LOA over the last 4 months. Please help me, I believe he is my soul mate and we belong together.
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Re: 3 years of waiting on my first love
The question is not if it is possible but can you believe it? If your answer is yes then it's totally possible.
First of all, drop your story. It's completely irrelevant. What story would you prefer? Tell the new story. Work on raising your vibration and feel your desired reality. If you don't resist your new reality it has to happen.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Thanks for the motivating words! The biggest obstacle is that he is with someone, it's difficult to raise vibration levels when all that keeps crossing your mind is that!
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sneha wrote:
Thanks for the motivating words! The biggest obstacle is that he is with someone, it's difficult to raise vibration levels when all that keeps crossing your mind is that!
Don't let your thoughts control you, control your thoughts.
When he already is with someone you don't have to fear that he finds someone new - I think that's a good thing. Concentrate only on what you want, not what is. It's just a reflection of your past thoughts, nothing to worry about.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Thanks I am going to give it a go, Which book do you recommend I buy?
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I don't think you need to buy any book. It's all online. I personally love all of Neville Goddard's books and lectures. Check out his "Prayer" (much stuff about how we influence other people) and "Feeling is the secret". I also love watching Abraham on Youtube and Bashar (check out his videos about shifting reality). Another great source of knowledge is Bentinho Massaro on youtube. But don't forget: Studying LoA is good but it doesn't manifest anything. Don't get lost in all the material. Do die vibrational work, that's most important.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Just thought I'd share this bit, my first love and I live in different countries . He was everything I wanted when I was younger and I cried oceans and valleys filled with broken hearted tears when it didn't work out ( entiiiiiiirrreelly my fault ). I ran after him 8 years on and off and though he did respond to me, one day he told me he didn't want to be responsible or part of my destiny ( yep it did hurt a much as it sounds like it might ).
Aannyyhoo that was a few years ago. I hadn't seen him since though I had heard he had a serious girlfriend. Well as I started working on my self esteem and trying to manifest another guy , the one I decided I want to marry ( because I just decide stuff like that) guess who popped up in my inbox talking about how beautiful I am and when am I coming back because he can't wait to see me and he's waiting for me?
It's not what I want anymore so I don't care very much even though not so long ago I would have given an Optimus prime and a Hulk ( and I loooooooove the hulk ) to hear that- what I do know is that years, communication, distance apparently means nothing... At some point out of nowhere this man just couldn't stop thinking about me and decided he wanted to see me again. Nothing had to be done on my part but focus on trying to get this other dude who has nothing to do with anything to realize he also wants to marry me 😋
So is it possible ? Yes ... But I think you have to detach from the outcome and believe anything can happen.
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In the end everything will be okay, if it's not okay then it's not the end. In the meantime everyday and in every way I AM better and better.
It's done 😘
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Thank you for sharing that! Even though you did not use the LOA it still makes me feel good to know re connection is possible! This time round I want him to come to me, tell me he misses me and how he wants a relationship! Im just struggling to block my thoughts about the other girl 
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This story is really great, thanks for sharing. <3
Everything is LoA. She had the desire to be with him for years. So it is a great manifestation, right? The moment you work on raising your vibe and have no resistance everything you once wanted comes. That could explain that everytime I'm in love the guy gives me a stuffed animal. 
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Hahah yes if you look at in that way then I agree! I don't want to wait forever, I know time does not matter but 3 years seem so long! I have just graduated and moved back home, we have had not contact since then but I have heard stuff about the him and the girl her is seeing from mutal friends! Really need to block that thought out 
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