So my friend doesn't want to create an account on here, but does not mind me asking for some help. Her and her guy were together again and really happy, until one day he decided to tell her they should stop seeing each other. She was really confused as to why, she just did not understand. They were doing so well, he said he did not love her, but even I knew that was a load of bull. Then it struck her, he has been worrying about her family situation.

She doesn't live in a pleasant house hold and he often worries over that. Two days she overslept and he spammed her phone and emailed if her phone was off because it was to be off soon. He wanted to give her money for the phone bill Saturday, but then made it sooner on Friday. It took her a moment to realize why he was so insistent on paying her phone bill. She had to look her whole situation over to draw this conclusion. He wanted to keep in contact so he knows she is safe.

He is always telling her to be safe at a constant as well. Plus, he is always asking what it is he can do to help with her situation which she always shows appreciation for. When he broke it off he told her it is because it is not worth the stress first and foremost, time and money. But the word stress stuck out to her the most to further draw this conclusion. The only stress he has with her is worry. He told her even if he initiates contact to not respond to him.

He clearly was not making any sense, but  I did start to see why she came up with this conclusion. It happened not too long after he spammed her again out of worry, so of COURSE that is the reason for it. He said also because of reasons he did not tell her. What he did not tell her is how useless he felt about helping her situation and how he wished he could do more. As it made the most sense, for everytime he would make an upset face when he could not be there to protect her. But never did he tell her it bothered him.

I told her to simply not worry and just let him sort his thoughts out. But she is still anxious and worried he won't come around, as well as wish he can not worry so much because she is working so hard on getting out of that situation. So she wanted me to ask everyone else what else she can do?