Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum » How You Know The Past Is Erased

holistichealing · 6/14/2016 9:46 pm

I found this quite interesting, that the past with my beloved is all a blurr now. It seems very foreign to me now as I cannot register the pain anymore, no I was never looking to the past to do it either. I had a couple of friends bring the past up and feel that my situation will fail again. But the difference from when they were right to now is that then I was still living in the past. Ever since I focused on my own happiness and raising my vibration, the past no longer lives with me.

Also, yes your love will come into alignment with you too. My beloved doesn't have a trace of memory as to why he did not want to be with me, and would prefer if we stayed happy in the present moment, and not bother with something that is now irrelevant. Of course, to faithfully move on we both forgave ourselves and each other. It helped us let go and move on with each other. Now we enjoy each other more than ever. The constant affections and love we share.

Everything that I ever wanted from him, I have only because I believed I already had it. I felt happy in my own skin, giving myself endless compliments. He is graced by my beauty, constantly staring, constantly smiling. That is the best part, the journey that comes along with it. You get so caught up in this exciting journey that you forget why you were never paying attention to it to begin with. The past stays there and the present moment is valuable. I just have fun blowing bubbles, dancing, eating sweets here and there, indulging in acai, writing stories and just playing pretend like a child. The loa brought the child in me right out that my past belonged to another person at another time. My story is much more fairy tale like.

Blessings,
Rose 🌹

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lemon · 6/14/2016 9:51 pm

I had to take a photo of your post it absolutely resonates and something I thought about before. Thank you for writing this

LoveIsGod · 6/15/2016 1:17 am

Wow...holistichealing...amazing... can you just brief your story?

SydneysMommy · 6/15/2016 11:44 am

Needed to read this. My ex is back and I'm loving it. He still is holding on to the past but not because of me his ex wife. They still battle it out in court over their kid. But when he talks to me or is around me...that initial anger and rudeness I'd gone. The best advice you gave me once was to focus on me more and it helps.

I'm super happy to see this post. I feel in a short while I'll be posting my reunion too.

Thank you

Little Red Robin · 6/16/2016 11:09 am

This is wonderful affirmation for me as I feel everything is new as well with ourselves. I'm just focussed on the present now with him and enjoying anytime we spend together, I notice the attraction is building, I see him looking at me. The eye contact is electric. It's just a matter of allowing it all to unfold now in divine timing.

I think it's really important to let go of the 'old' relationship you had. We did start talking about it last week and i realised it wasn't the way to go about things at all, but we quickly moved through it and there wasn't really anything else to add because you can't really 'fix' all the little issues you had before. And if you've been doing the work of self love and forgiveness, retrospection and seeing how you can change now, all you have to do is just live in the present with a far greater appreciation of them and yourself, just be happy now Also, I think as long as you forget the past your partner will too!! Your thoughts become theirs!!!

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angeldust4 · 6/20/2016 4:27 pm

I love this post! I am no longer hurt by my past either, and my & my guy have been through a lot. It's like I'm in a whole new reality now!

holistichealing · 6/20/2016 4:33 pm

angeldust4 wrote:
I love this post! I am no longer hurt by my past either, and my & my guy have been through a lot. It's like I'm in a whole new reality now!

You are in a new reality. I remember reading somewhere that past, present and future are separate realities.

SydneysMommy · 6/21/2016 7:45 am

How did you say that? Past, present and future are different realities?!?! I LOVE that phrase, could not have said it better myself. I am in 100% agreement with that. When I was workingon getting Darius back full time, that's all i thought about. And until this last tiff I could see him falling right in order.

But it's the other person that needs to get on track to, to believe this...Although im swamped with annoyance by him at the moment. I am curious the time length and how you kept focused. I think someone else asked as well. Most people reply generally, but i think getting to the gritty helps to hear so no one feels like they are alone in this. Sometime everyone is flying so high, I know in the early times of submission, i felt alone, like every one was a chipper girl scout and i was the wierd goth kid killing bugs with a lighter.

Until I read a few hard hitting post that helped so much, i was aware, nope im not alone what so ever...
so helo us out sister! How did you mantain? That is the part i find hardest...Because I cannot build him a big enough buildboard that says "LET THE PAST GO" "IT IS NOT MY FAULT" "YOU ARE THE REASON YOU HAVEN'T LET GO" " A FUTURE WITH ME COULD ROCK" "YOU KNOW YOURE THE BRICK WALL RIGHT?" "APOLOGIZE WHEN YOU ARE WRONG" "BECAUSE YOU FEEL HURT DOESN'T MEAN YOU HURT OTHER PEOPLE" and my favorite one "YOU LIVE AND SURVUVED IN MY ARMS STOP DYING ALONE"

He can admit all these things and skip his merry ass around when he is with me...EVERYONE SEES IT...BUT he rather go back to burning bugs with a lighter when something happens...

Little Red Robin · 6/21/2016 8:24 am

Don't be conerned with how 'they' think or if they are still remembering stuff. Just keep letting go yourself and focus on only what you want to create now, the better brighter relationship with them. Keep visualising you both happy now doing things together, making love etc. And then just go about your life being happy and taking good care of yourself

holistichealing · 6/21/2016 8:31 am

Susiewoo wrote:
Don't be conerned with how 'they' think or if they are still remembering stuff. Just keep letting go yourself and focus on only what you want to create now, the better brighter relationship with them. Keep visualising you both happy now doing things together, making love etc. And then just go about your life being happy and taking good care of yourself

Beautiful.

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