1 - RollingRock33
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I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
So she's had to tell me over and over within the past few months that she:
-doesn't have any romantic feelings for me anymore
and that
-we're just friends. That's it. That's all we'll ever be.
and that
-she doesn't have ANY feelings towards me and is not attracted to me at all.
Well tonight she pinned this, obviously for me to see...
"If you constantly have to tell someone the same thing about how you feel and they don't change it, understand they don't respect you"...
(Or maybe that's because I'd always tell her the same thing due to worry... "I want to be with you. I love you" etc. - Maybe she's saying she has no respect for me; which, she's said before...)
I'm at a loss guys. I can't stay positive, and I don't think I've got any chance at getting my girl back 
((((
Last edited by RollingRock33 (6/12/2016 12:33 am)
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
Do something to relax and stick to your story:
- Creeeeestal
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
Nothing is hopeless. Nothing is impossible. Like Veronica says we're not meant to live with lack! Find something to lift your spirits! I had my little moment earlier today but I recognized it, let myself feel it, and found things to uplift myself. We have to get happy and we have to relax! It's going to be ok.
True forgiveness is accepting the apology you have not yet received.
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
Like people have said over and over here, you need to spend some time with you. Forget about this girl for a bit. One week, two weeks, whatever. Improve your mental health, your vibration, and your physical health, and those good things will reflect back on you. If you're constantly in this state of up and down and panic and calmness about the situation you're just not going to attract her back into a new relationship. This is just how LoA works.
Listen, people change their minds ALL THE TIME. Every single second of every single day. You've probably done it multiple times already today. The best way to get her to switch her vibe is to improve yourself, and make yourself totally irresistible. Once you get to that place vibrationally, she will know.
Also: you have absolutely no idea if that pinned post referred to you or not! You're creating a story where there isn't one.
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
You think "My situation is hopeless" and feel bad -> you attract more hopelessness
You analyse your NOW situation -> you recreate your now situation
You have fun and don't think about her -> your vibration gets closer to the vibration to need to get her back
You decide to no longer think about what is -> you deactive the vibration of her being gone and stop recreating the situation
You start to think about what you want without feeling the lack of it -> you feel wonderful
You PERSIST in doing so -> there she is
You once were so small you couldn't even reach the table. Sounds like a very hopeless situation. But you never doubted you would grow up and you did. Everything is changing when you don't work against it (what you do right now).
Can you please just get it and then DO it?
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
Seriously you have to stop this or you will make yourself ill, and nobody is worth that. Sanshi above has said it all. Just do it.
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
Listen to 'abraham' or 'bashar' or 'bentinho massaro' 's teachings daily. You will feel hopeful everyday! I am alright when I fully understand what 'parallel realities' means. Sometimes I would focus on the currently reality a bit but I would interpret it in a way I prefer!
Bashar states ' The more you are alright with the process itself of discovering your true self, the faster the manifestation will go."
Neville also states ' If you will assume your desire and live there as though it were true, no power on earth can stop it from becoming a fact.'
TRUTH IS TRUTH. Why are all of them saying the same thing? BECAUSE IT IS A LAW.
All of us already have what we desire. We just need to be in a high vibe/ the state of being to manifest the experience into physical reality! Cheer up, we are meant to have our success!
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
Hey Rollingrock, if you want some advice, stop telling her that you love her, stop telling her you want to be with her. If you keep telling her this then she will know that she can have you whenever she wants and will keep stringing you along.
Stop all contact with her, which I know is easier said then done. Literally disappear off the radar. Do not go on social media at all, do not text, email or ring her. Do not tell her you are going to do this. You probably have not been together for a while so going off the radar for a few weeks should not be hard. She will wonder like mad where have you gone. Do not let her know anything about you.
This will make her start to think about you and wonder where you have gone.
Also you appear to be putting all your energy onto her and not yourself. Start thinking about you not her. Do whatever you want and can to be happy with you. Do not worry if what you are doing will annoy her and that is fear. Just focus solely on yourself, do not contact her at all and do anything to stop thinking of her, just for 2 weeks or a month. You will be amazed at how good you will feel. And you will be in a much better vibe to initiate contact after that time if she has not already contacted you in the meantime.
Everything will work out for you, but get your head on straight first, stop worrying, stop all the fear, stop thinking about everything she has said to you as that is from you past thoughts and stop being NEGATIVE.
Hope this helps.
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
RolingRock I really recommend that you listen to Lanie Steven's 'Loss of Love - Cutting the Cord' meditation - it really really helped me and I noticed a change as soon as I listened to it even just once! Have I given up on H? No! But it got rid of that dependency/longing feeling which was just detrimental to me and actually blocking me from what I want.
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Re: I think my situation is hopelss.... :(
messaged her saying, "good morning!" she replied, "same to you" ew wtf.
Then I said, "thanks. How's your morning?" she replied, "fab..have a good day"
God ******* damnit. My vibe was so ******* hifh last night.
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