Hey guys, if I am being totally honest, my vibes are up and down throughout the day. But I make sure that when I think positive it clearly outweighs the negatives and there are a lot more positives. To the point now that I nothing really bothers me regarding the break up as I am living life to the max as you will read further down on here. 

My confidence has sky rocketed over the last couple of weeks, I have been doing everything and anything I can to be happy (even with work!! lol) I really don't know where that meltdown came from!! I blame the booze I had that night and will not be repeating it lol.

The things I enjoy and actually doing now -

watching films and tv shows listening to all my favorite songs

Going out with my family (especially my little son)

I have recently reconnected with about 14 friends that i had currently neglected due to being in a relationship and they all welcomed me with open arms.

I love tattoo's so recently I have got a couple that I always wanted but never got round to it. Oh and piercings had a couple done.

Although I am a bloke, I have been doing retail therapy new clothes new hair cut etc (boosts your confidence).

I really enjoy reading now which is something I would never do before, especially regarding the LOA,

I started mixed martial arts which is a massive confidence booster (although I could always hold my own) and start lifting weights now I have been told I look amazing by a lot of people.

I have taken up archery which is another thing I have always wanted to do.  

This one some will not agree with me but hey ho, I used to be a bit of a "player" in my younger days and now I have started going out a fair bit, just getting into conversations with women, this can even be in a coffee shop or just walking down the high street just get talking. Because my confidence is back with a vengeance I have got a lot of numbers and actually recently been on a few dates. I do make sure that the women know that I am not looking for anything serious so I am not stringing them along. Believe me even if just one talks to you back and you have a laugh, this will boost your confidence something chronic and it will spear you on to do it again. This does not mean I don't want my love back, its me moving on and letting go of the outcome, as I am becoming very happy on my own and knowing that there are a vast amount of women out there it makes me not think of my love as much. (even more when you cant put your phone down for more then a few minutes due to the amount of texts you get)   but mainly it is a confidence booster and having fun!! 

I just need to remember that I am human, as often recently I don't stop doing things to rest much, and its taken it toll on me today, I just fell asleep this afternoon which I never do, I was worn out!!

Believe me anything is possible, if things like other ex's/FWB get in touch, DO NOT blow them off. They have been brought to you to build you back up as they already know you so well. If new poeple come into your life - GET TO KNOW THEM. If your friends or family or work mates invite you out - GO WITH THEM even if you don't feel like it. If you see an advert for a new film that you like the look of - GO WATCH IT. If you see a new cd you like the look of - BUY IT and LISTEN TO IT. If someone/anyone asks you for your help - HELP THEM.

Be THANKFUL for everything you have got now as it could be worse. Be thankful for everything that has happened to you then you will have more things to be thankful for in the future. EVEN BE THANKFUL FOR THE BREAK UP!!! this may sound idiotic but I bet anything that if you really think back to the relationship you had with your ex things were not as good as you think they were!! I have realized this. Now I am changing the future to the relationship that I do want with my lost love. The new relationship where were are equal, always happy, loyal honest, active, grateful for each other etc.

I have come to realize that you NEED to get yourself back by doing anything you want and can to be happy with yourself and love yourself. Don't worry if what you do will upset or piss off your ex because it is all about YOU and them things will not bother them once you are both back together now will it!! When you are focusing on you and your happiness your ex should not really be entering your mind that often as you are focusing the majority of your energy on you. This will also get you to the point where you truly will not be bothered if your ex comes back or not as your having an amazing time anyway. And I truly believe that they will come back when you do not expect it. It will come out the blue and you probably will not even notice straight away that they have contacted you. (I will write a new post about this with regards to manifesting a different ex back years ago without even knowing it.)

I hope this helps you, stay strong and ask god and the universe for strength, focus on you, laugh everyday for as long as you can. If you want to private message me then feel free.