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Hi guys,Β
I'm new here to write a post but ive been reading and getting a lot of help and motivation from so many on here. Β
My ex and I were each others first everything pretty much and have been apart since March last year but I still feel so connected to him and I know theres reasons why we always somehow manage to connect even though time has passed. It's been difficult as he has rejected me in so many ways but still I am staying true to what I believe because its so obvious how much hes struggling without me
I know I can do this and I started doing this properly using LOA techniques last month. I use Lanies RS and it feels amazing and it makes me feel much better, like im finally achieving something. Since then I have started seeing another guy and I feel more of a connection to my ex too. Im just enjoying the feelings this new guy is giving me.Β
The other day I visualised getting a text from my ex (I have done this many times before), but this time about a few hours later when i checked my phone I got one! It really wasn't much, it was just a joke from him and all I did was laugh and that conversation ended ahah but it was still good seeing as we didnt end great last conversation.
I just want to know, Im still doing this and still visualising and doing the 25 day challenge, why did the text not say anything I hoped for? Any tips to make things go in the right direction? And the new guy is amazing - were just hooking up but im very distant because I still have feelings for my ex. Is this causing resistance? Like I don't want to get too close as it may upset my ex when he finds out.
I have tickets overseas with my ex I had booked with him for next month and I am visualising that going as planned too.Β
Any help or tips would be great! Thanks so muchΒ
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pings wrote:
I just want to know, Im still doing this and still visualising and doing the 25 day challenge, why did the text not say anything I hoped for?
Did you expect it to happen? You hoped for it, so you didn't believe it would happen. Hope is the right direction but you have to get to the place where you just know. When you are there something like this wouldn't bother you at all because you know that no matter what he does now you will be together. He just reflects your old thoughts. If you now concentrate on why it's not yet here you are sending out the wrong vibration. Read this post, maybe it helps:
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I knew he will message, I just hoped it was soon. I know I have to believe its soon but its a bit tricky to stay that way. I know no matter what we will be togather. I'm not concentrating on why he's not here, I just want to take the right steps to avoid resistance the best way possible from here on in. I'm living as if he's already here, I visualise and have conversations like its already happened and I feel great! Much better and happier. Thats why I think I got this new guy and a text from ex Β
Thanks for the post! Sure does help stay on track