Aphrodite wrote:

Imagine them realizing the engagement was not the right thing to do, that 5months is too short a time to do that. And imagine them breaking off the relationship.

Aphrodite, thank you so much! Do you find visualization to be better then affirmations?

Thank you both for the advice and suggestions I'm working on this and I will feel only positive vibes about it soon. Thank you all so much!!

Blessedck wrote:

Rab924 wrote:

Thank you both for the advice and suggestions I'm working on this and I will feel only positive vibes about it soon. Thank you all so much!!

Rab924, I think you will like this story!!

http://www.thesecret.tv/stories/the-boy-is-mine/

Blessed thank you for this story It was perfect!! I'm feeling more positive already thanks to you all.

Rab924 wrote:

Hi everyone,
I just found out my ex proposed to this girl who he's only been dating for 5 months I feel awful because I have 8yrs with him. I've focused for years and managed to get him back a few times but now it seems like things are just going so badly these past 6-7 months. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong
Any advice on how I can change things?

 

The focus should be on your ex marrying YOU.

Here's an exercise you can try. Say:

I am so happy and grateful now that I'm married to (your ex first and last name. If it's a common name, use his middle name too)

So, if his name is John Cola, you would say:

"I am so happy and grateful now that I'm married to John Cola".

Say it 100 times per day. Use a tally counter to keep track .Do it for 30 days STRAIGHT. If you skip a day, start over from Day 1.

Say it with passion and emotions. Use Brad Yates "Love Magnet - Tapping into Love Beyond Belief " video on Youtube so you can FEEL the emotions and project a loving vibe to your ex. Like attracts like. I would do it 3 times per day in conjuction with the affirmations.

This is what I'm doing to attract my ex back to me. Hope everything works out for you!!!