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I could use encouragement.
I have been no contact for 2 days so far to get myself together and then attract him back. I've been doing well keeping my energy centered around myself so far but I get urges to text him!! Today is the 3rd day of no contact and I sent him a message. Thankfully it didn't go through! Maybe it's a sign I shouldn't contact him. I do so well and then I just want to talk to him. He's with someone else but I have attracted him back into a relationship with me from a similar situation last year around this time. (A little weird that it's always around this time of year it happens)
Words of wisdom
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Encouragement
- Sanshi
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Re: I could use encouragement.
I think it would best to stick to no contact for a while (30+ days). Work to your stuff. Get happy with yourself, think about why the relationship ended and fix what you have to fix.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
- Oasiscalm
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Re: I could use encouragement.
If you are going to do NC there are going to be moments when you have overwhelming urges to contact him. You have to find a way to not crumble under that pressure.
When I did NC I deleted his number from my phone so that I couldn't contact him on a whim and to stop me looking at his status etc
Then get to distracting yourself. Get busy. Do things which keep u engrossed. Avoid triggers - anything that makes u think about him.
It gets easier.
Veronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com