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We spoke last night for, like, 2 hours. It was actually great. All of the wonderful, intense feelings came back. At the end, he said 'thank you for talking to me'. I'm not worried about this other woman anymore. I know he wants us to work out. She is no comparison. I can't wait to write about how he asked me to move in
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Update So we had been great! Last night I even spent the night at his house, but I feel like I messed up. This morning I asked him if I could see him and what he thinks of us and he started to get kinda frustrated. I even came over by surprise a few hours later just to surprise him and he got angry. Before I left he did say that we were ok and we'll talk later. Im afraid that I really messed up my chances & should've just kept my thoughts to myself. Advice?
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Focus on what you do want, not on what you don't want - it's always the same in every situation.
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Sanshi wrote:
Focus on what you do want, not on what you don't want - it's always the same in every situation.
True. I just spoke to him and he said he wasn't upset and was probably asleep when I tried calling him last night I feel much better. I'm going to start using Lanie's method to get him to ask me to be his gf and move in π I truly feel like he came back around because I started using that. I haven't done it ever since he began contacting me.
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So, everything got all messed up again. I'm starting over again today. It worked the first time, so it has to work even better this time around since I learned from my mistakes.