1 of 1- Iroquois
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Feeling hopeless....
Hey guys, watching how everyone support each other on here has really helped me, but now I'm really at an all time low point.
I've really clicked with a girl I work with, she's everything I've been looking for. We used to go to the gym and hang out all the time, and she was always very flirty. Then out of nowhere she started seeing another guy. I was heartbroken, but in my heartbreak I found LOA and really turned myself around. I felt so positive, and happy in the knowledge that she would end up with me, and that I was manifesting my reality.
Then, success, if you can call it that. She cheated on her boyfriend, which obviously broke them up. At the time I saw this as my second chance, and whilst distasteful, a real LOA success. Especially when over the last week, she's been showing a little interest in me again.
I was so hopeful this morning, but now I've just walked past her place only to see the man she cheated on her boyfriend WITH leaning out the window shirtless. It seems as though she's now seeing this guy now secretly!
I feel absolutely heartbroken again. I want to get myself back on a high frequency so I can start bringing her into my life again, but now I find myself asking whether I read her wrong, is she just a bad person? Should I just cut my losses and focus LOA elsewhere in my life? I really felt wonderful about her though, and seems my fear of losing her has manifested into 'lost her'!
What do you guys think? What can I do now? I want to believe in the best outcome but this has really thrown me off vibrationally.
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Re: Feeling hopeless....
If you look at it like, she's on her path to you and going through all these other guys will just make her realise what she wants and she will come to you and that they will all show her things she thought she wanted but didn't and she will have a lot out of her system before she gets to you 
'What We Think, We Become' -Buddha
- Iroquois
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Re: Feeling hopeless....
Thank you, that's a nice way to look at it.
Unfortunately I'm struggling getting back into a high vibration, which means not a lot seems to be going right. She's become very dismissive of me again, so I'm thinking of going down the "no contact" route, and just focussing on myself for a while.
It just feels a shame because for a good month I was in the mindset of KNOWING we'd be together, the thought alone made me so excited and loving, and she reciprocated, but now I just feel completely rejected.
I know I've gotta get back into the 'believing', then the 'knowing' mindset. So I'll retreat to my corner and focus on myself.
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Thread Starter- Sanshi
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Re: Feeling hopeless....
Iroquois wrote:
Thank you, that's a nice way to look at it.
Unfortunately I'm struggling getting back into a high vibration, which means not a lot seems to be going right. She's become very dismissive of me again, so I'm thinking of going down the "no contact" route, and just focussing on myself for a while.
It just feels a shame because for a good month I was in the mindset of KNOWING we'd be together, the thought alone made me so excited and loving, and she reciprocated, but now I just feel completely rejected.
I know I've gotta get back into the 'believing', then the 'knowing' mindset. So I'll retreat to my corner and focus on myself.
I also think that is the best thing you can do right now. It gets so much easier to feel good if you focus only on you for a while.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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