Cotton wrote:

Who cares if its your current ex or someone else (im saying this to you now that you are this stage where i can safely suggest this to you and it wont send you into depression lol) the point is that you are cherished loved respected a PRIORITY totally adored and made to feel like a QUEEN. No matter who it is from.....try not to put a face on it and the feelings will be soooo strong and so magnetic that it will suck you right into the vortex relationship and you will not even care to ask for his name......😜😜😜😜

Cotton.. Weren't you trying to attract you ex??

That's why I was asking.. Cause I know you got your guy back. So in a sense you were still specifically wanting him.. Not just ok with whatever showed up and not even asking for his name

Cotton wrote:

Hes not ex anymore ☺️

Well look at that confidence 😃

I love it! But serious question. Per bashar he says the first things you see back are an echo of your old reality. Giving you a chance to respond differently.


Mich similar to your mirror analogy.

My love and I were on the phone like everyday...not that I'm worried bit lately not as much. Dis you go through that too since your in different  continents? And how did you handle it? My old reply was to not worry to much when he was mine...my reaction when things got rocky was to call and text several times to see what was wrong and let my anxiety drift to he is talking to another girl...now I dunno how to react. He maybe talking to someone new, which he can...heck even I have suitors but now that there has been a spoken attraction on his part and he has asked me out for memorial day weekend I'm like surly he is following my lead but... the Cal's and texts have slowed down...how do I respond to this without the kiss my ass of Bashar influences..lol and the weak struggle of feeling forgotten?

Cherished wrote:

SydneysMommy wrote:

Cotton wrote:

Hes not ex anymore ☺️

Well look at that confidence 😃

I love it! But serious question. Per bashar he says the first things you see back are an echo of your old reality. Giving you a chance to respond differently.


Mich similar to your mirror analogy.

My love and I were on the phone like everyday...not that I'm worried bit lately not as much. Dis you go through that too since your in different  continents? And how did you handle it? My old reply was to not worry to much when he was mine...my reaction when things got rocky was to call and text several times to see what was wrong and let my anxiety drift to he is talking to another girl...now I dunno how to react. He maybe talking to someone new, which he can...heck even I have suitors but now that there has been a spoken attraction on his part and he has asked me out for memorial day weekend I'm like surly he is following my lead but... the Cal's and texts have slowed down...how do I respond to this without the kiss my ass of Bashar influences..lol and the weak struggle of feeling forgotten?

 
You fear it slowing down, communication slows. You work yourself back into belief that YOU are controlling this- guarantee he will pick back up. It's you. It's all you 😘

Right that's inner self but putter self dies what?

Location lately some have the men from my past has been coming back. No more I'm getting into before they all come back. So I have been spending time trying to find travel arrangements to move, take care of my daughter, and ultimately letting them call and text me sweet nothings because hey why not! And I was hoping that I wasn't doing something wrong because no sooner than I started focusing on having fun I noticed that he wasn't responding or calling as much as he had been in previous weeks. One thing that I do know now is that I control everything but is allowing someone else to give you the opportunity to show you they're interested counteractive for what you want from your love? Either way slowing down or not he is super involved and that is something that I really enjoy, I just don't know how to respond to heavy calling and then little calling the tilt table is so confusing something that I am trying my best to work through

Good advice