aj110214 wrote:

Because I have been following Abraham Hicks teachings for a few months, I know it's not logical to talk about your problems. I want to put this entire topic (the negative side of it) to rest after this post.

My boyfriend and I were together for about 6 months when we found out I was expecting our sweet beautiful baby girl. We had some ups and downs during the time, and I take full responsibility for not being in alignment. Well, when I was 4 months pregnant, my love was in a horrible accident. He almost lost his life as he got his arm mauled by equipment at his workplace. I tried my best to stay by his side, helped him go to the bathroom, cooked for him, and even slept on a cot so he wouldn't be alone. After a few stressful months (his accident, my pregnancy), he left me. He said he had zero feelings for me and it wasn't going to work. That was the most painful experience of my life. For whatever reason, him and his family claim to completely despise me. He has a new 17 year old girlfriend who he says is the absolute love of his life. He also hasn't seen our daughter in 3 months. 

What I want is to be a family. I truly do love him and our beautiful baby girl. Someday I want us to be married and have more babies! I tell myself this new girlfriend is a distraction for him. My struggle is focusing on him and his family hating me!!!!!!! It's all I think about!!! It feels like mission impossible and I am just completely lost...

I think I need to start this process over! 

Thank you loves! xx

Don't worry about the other girl. 17 is very very young and even from a non-LoA perspective it is likely that the relationship won't last very long.
When Abraham say you shouldn't talk about your problems they also mean that you shouldn't think about them. So stop that first. When you do things right their is no way how your guy can NOT come back to you. So take the time to practice your believe in you two already being together. Ignore what is as good as you can. Remember that it is just a reflection of your old thoughts. It only can last when you continue to focus on it. You have maybe 16 hours per day to focus on something. Use this time wisely because that focus creates your reality. If you not fully believe in LoA yet I would recommend to first kill all doubts you hold. You can do it. It's work but it is achievable. Try to let him go for a while and work on yourself.