jenn wrote:

how do you change someones role in your life? like I've read about you giving your person the script how do you guys change that? I'm not sure if I'm ma king sense lol.

Start thinking new thoughts about the person. In the beginning it will feel like a lie but after a while it will feel more natural to you. Try it. I only did it onces in a conscious way but it worked wonders for me.

Honestly, I think you can only change your role in relation to them and then that would influence and attract them to change theirs....So if you want someone to see you as a friend instead of as a girlfriend, you start acting like how you interpret a friend to act like, so loud, fun, super relaxed...and if you want the opposite, you interpret how it would be to be their girlfriend or romantic interest, flirtatious, coy, a little nervous, smiling, gentle, deeper eye contact, slower talking....then they should switch Not sure if that's what you mean!