After me and my long term boyfriend broke up, I stayed basically single for 6 months then started dating this guy in my circle who reminded me of my old boyfriend. We had a messy month that ended in a fight, I deleted him on fb, he called me crazy, I called him a loser.. Yeah nasty. Didn't expect to hear from him again, recently I started thinking about him, feeling like 'it'd be nice to have him as a friend, he wasn't that bad, I was too hard on him' my friend then randomly brought him up in convoy two days ago saying how she liked him as a friend too and wouldn't mind him being around again. I haven't been thinking much about him but today he messaged me on fb even though he's still unfriended to say he still had my book and we got chatting I think the positive vibes I was sending out about him drew him to me. So yeah, posotive vibes towards people can help draw them in again definitely