iinikkii wrote:

lemon wrote:

i am trying to be sincere, I really meant it to have a good night as a way that I am not trying to be rude or condescending. I just think it was a miscommunication between us and if that is the case, I do apologize on my behalf. and this is about iinikkii so for that you are right iinikkii, positive vibes since we are all in this together. 

I know your intentions are good! Thank you for being apart of my journey!

Thank you and you're welcome Yeah i just think it's ok to work on yourself and if you're interested in dating someone new who cares? It's your life. You're create your own reality. Just know I got what you mean.

iinikkii wrote:

lemon wrote:

iinikkii wrote:

I know your intentions are good! Thank you for being apart of my journey!

Thank you and you're welcome Yeah i just think it's ok to work on yourself and if you're interested in dating someone new who cares? It's your life. You're create your own reality. Just know I got what you mean.

Yes, i agree. I like working on me and becoming a better version of myself! My love is coming back, Sooo I want to be the very best version on me EVER! the pay off will be waaaayy worth it!  Plus, it makes ME feel better to be doing better!

And I just genuinely don't have any desire to date other guys. It just doesn't interest me at all. At the end of the day I have to trust my higher self as to what is right for me.. And dating other guys just isn't something I'm interested in. God/Source has my back and that's good enough for me 😊

In all honestly I agree. It's not like I can't get a date I already been asked out three times I just don't have any interest and I've come to a point where If I know it has no advancement or interest in it for me I won't do it. I have friends I can go it with, I have admirers, but in the end I know what I want and I get what I want.

Unless we're taking about Chris hemsworth than that's different lol he can have my number instantly

(all joke)

but seriously i feel more focus on myself and my self worth and how it feels amazing when the time is right. I am so much happier than I ever been. I feel loved and love. I feel honestly lucky. I've gotten so much outside from my man from focusing on my vibrations and alignment it just feels even better when I do think of him. (Sort like an extra cherry on top of your sundae or finding an onion ring in your Burger King fries)

  Plus I think it's worth something to not put your distractions in another person and put it in yourself cause you focus on what makes you happy and stuff no one can ever take away so if anything else were to happen. you spent more time on yourself and the universe you know exactly what to do to flip things around if something pops up. I feel like maybe that's why I didn't particly like  the saying to go out and date someone else. It's just a bandaid of a distraction. I can see their point but it's not for everyone. Keep doing your thing and you can always pm if you want.

iinikkii wrote:

lemon wrote:

iinikkii wrote:

Yes, i agree. I like working on me and becoming a better version of myself! My love is coming back, Sooo I want to be the very best version on me EVER! the pay off will be waaaayy worth it!  Plus, it makes ME feel better to be doing better!

And I just genuinely don't have any desire to date other guys. It just doesn't interest me at all. At the end of the day I have to trust my higher self as to what is right for me.. And dating other guys just isn't something I'm interested in. God/Source has my back and that's good enough for me 😊

In all honestly I agree. It's not like I can't get a date I already been asked out three times I just don't have any interest and I've come to a point where If I know it has no advancement or interest in it for me I won't do it. I have friends I can go it with, I have admirers, but in the end I know what I want and I get what I want.

Unless we're taking about Chris hemsworth than that's different lol he can have my number instantly

(all joke)

but seriously i feel more focus on myself and my self worth and how it feels amazing when the time is right. I am so much happier than I ever been. I feel loved and love. I feel honestly lucky. I've gotten so much outside from my man from focusing on my vibrations and alignment it just feels even better when I do think of him. (Sort like an extra cherry on top of your sundae or finding an onion ring in your Burger King fries)

  Plus I think it's worth something to not put your distractions in another person and put it in yourself cause you focus on what makes you happy and stuff no one can ever take away so if anything else were to happen. you spent more time on yourself and the universe you know exactly what to do to flip things around if something pops up. I feel like maybe that's why I didn't particly like  the saying to go out and date someone else. It's just a bandaid of a distraction. I can see their point but it's not for everyone. Keep doing your thing and you can always pm if you want.

Yes... I agree with all of the above! I've had my down moments.. But for the most part I am feeling so good and just smiling all the time. Sometimes I laugh at myself for having the cheesiest grin on my face! But.. It just FEELS SO GOOD! and when I'm feeling this good and I think of him.. Omg! It feels AMAZING!! ❤️❤️

GOOD!! That's how I feel.

iinikkii wrote:

No one is disagreeing that that has happened for others. It seems as tho you (Shootingstar) always have some sort of arguement towards me and my intentions and my beliefs. Almost as tho you are trying to push your limitations/ and or beliefs on me. So I do ask you kindly that if you could only post/reply with encouraging statements that back my beliefs about MY creation, that would be awesome! Otherwise, I would appreciate if you didn't respond at all. I say that only out of love 😁 .. It's just that sometimes your responses make me wobble. ( less and less here recently, bc I'm becoming more and more confident, but nevertheless.. Only positivity please!! 😘

I read this today and I have to admit I got totally confused but then I thought of something and I feel it's the missing link in your predicament ! You think I have an argument against your beliefs or that I'm trying to push my limitations on you when actually, I don't really recognise your user name that much and I don't remember any other threads you've ever posted and I sort of just reply to threads and posts based on the post and even though I remember a couple of names on here, I really don't recognise yours as much...but I literally only reply to the question posted without any background so I just reply based on the current vibration of the question, the context of the question and I do post positively (like I think I posted a post on here maybe a few times to suggest breaking contact for a while when I felt the situation being posted about was negative and the person was stuck and going down a rocky road) So what that really means I feel for you is that you see my posts, you think 'ugh this person has a thing against me, she's bringing me down, she shouldn't even be on here' but I'm literally saying the positive things that they say to do in manifestations and what really works and letting go to get in the recieving mode is a big step and that's the step I suggested to you in this post, but you misread it as 'forget about it, not going to happen, move on' which is interesting because if you read it negatively it means that you are harbouring that resistance in yourself. If you think I'm out to get you (when I literally don't notice your posts and I'm not out to get anyone or take away from their beliefs, just trying to share the message of abundance and happiness and letting go in getting your manifestation) then it seems that you are projecting that negative side of how you really feel onto me and you're screaming 'NO' which is actually just your resistance. I'm not a guru but I have listened to a lot of Abraham and only the other day realised that the fastest way to get things you want is to intend , believe, have faith, let go. Then as you are preoccupied with something else that's got your attention and it's powerful and positive, your manifestation just casually walks into your life. That's easier to some than it sounds! Because you do need the faith but that means 'letting go and letting God'. There's a really good post on here called 'that man or no man' but I know you would hate it haha. But setting your mind in an abundant mindset, aka, not holding onto one prize, does susbsequently tend to make that prize come along too. But the other way, which I know you want to do, I know, is focusing powerfully but if you focus and want it so much that it hurts, then you're wanting it too much and that causes resistance! If you're on a high and then put the condition of that high on the manifestation and it doesn't come along, then you crash like today and that adds resistance to it. I won't post any more on this thread I know I'm not wanted haha But I really did post this just because I got confused why you thought that about me seeing as I literally don't recall you too much, but then thought 'ahh, maybe her inner resistance demon is the one she is projecting on me, the little demon that also says give up, maybe she could see that if I tell her that I'm not that demon and it's in her head, then it might fade away a little'. 

iinikkii- I really enjoy reading your thread. I feel like I'm in the same situation as you. I believe in LOA but I know I feel resistance when it comes to getting my guy back. I think when our heart is on the line, it is so easy to succumb to fear and doubt. You touch on two points that I wanted to address.1. Dating others- That's a no go for me too. I go out with friends all the time and always get told I'm pretty and people always ask for my number (more so now that my vibes are higher). But, I know that me and my guy are going to be together so it just feels wrong. It feels unfair to all parties involved. I don't want to lead anyone on. That being said I do keep myself open. If I honestly felt a connection deep down in my soul with another guy I would explore it. But, I'm a independent women. I don't need to date to date. I don't need a guy, I already love myself. I'm okay with being alone. Until I met my guy I had no idea I was capable of even loving someone so strongly.
2. Letting Go- Sooooo important, yet it seems so impossible. I haven't heard from my guy in over a month. I keep reading stories of someone visualizing and then 20 minutes later they receive a text message from him. I am soooo happy for them, honest! But, I'm also soooo jealous! We just have to keep working on it. Write our own success story. The universe has no concept of time. It just does it's best the fastest it can. We need to stay positive and allow it to do so.