RollingRock33 wrote:

What if in time, I force myself to believe she's coming back, and she's mine, wholeheartedly, but she never comes back?

Then that means you are still looking for physical proof, as well as there is lack and doubt still. They ALWAYS come back if you believe they do. You just need to relax. You should read Mindful Manifestations by Veronica.

RollingRock33 wrote:

and if I believe she's mine... she should come right? I'm just scared to "get my hopes up"

She will COME, you just need to relax and do some mental discipline.

Sam wrote:

The "logical" validation you're looking for contradicts the things we believe in and teach here. Everything you're continuing to talk about is conditional and circumstantial, neither of which matters in the LOA. I don't understand why you'd come to an LOA forum looking for conventional advice. I am not trying to be rude, I just think you'd really benefit if you'd try to open your mind a bit more and hear us out. It could really transform your life.

I know. I'm trying reallyhard to believe and listen.

But could I get a logical answer though? Maybe to boost my vibration a bit?

thank you.  So are you attracting your ex back? any progress?

Cherished wrote:

You seriously have to get yourself in check. I'm not trying to be rude- but where is your self-respect? I know you say that you're totally confident in yourself, but seriously- your LACK of self-worth is precisely what has driven her away. Sam is correct. In a very logical sense, she is entirely suffocated and feels repelled by someone who is a snivelling mess! You've done basically everything in the book to screw it up. From a logical perspective.

BUT..

You have another avenue. You could, today, start to look around you and focus upon the things that DO feel ok. You could start small and prove to yourself that LOA does rule your world. Which it does. You could concentrate exclusively on the the fact that thoughts become things, and spend all day training yourself to manifest coffees and carparks and money and free stuff. Then you could do some positive journaling and visualisation about things that make you happy. Then you could reflect on how, actually, you are quite powerful. Then you could very deliberately train your mind to react more positively to the world around you. Then you could actually begin to believe a little in the possibility of a reconciliation. And then you may even come to the realisation that you are a truly great deliberate creator. And then you might even just drop your resistance and realise that you don't NEED to feel like another person is totally responsible for your wellbeing. And when THAT happens, you'll see that it was actually never about her; it was always about your misalignment with YOU. And as you release that enormous death grip you have on her, and relax into the knowing that things will actually be perfectly fine without her.. THEN she will appear in your reality.

It's not logical, it's inexplicable in practical terms. But it's your other option. And the lovely people here on forum will guide you through that process and out the other end. We've done it so many times with so many people, and they started out just like you. 😘

Cherished, you're absolutely right. Thank you SO much!! Okay. Time to get myself back. I can do this. I don't know how but I know I can. And you know what? Despite whatever hell is happening between she and I right now, I'm going to get her back. In fact, I asked the universe. And she IS mine! A part of me believes she's coming back, and I'm going to turn that from 60% to 100%!

Thank you so much!! I can do this!!!!! Now I just need to find where to start! Haha!

Sam, I'm SO happy to hear that!!

Thank you both for all of your help!!! I AM a creator and I CAN do this!!!!!!