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Forgiveness
So I just woke up today feeling angry...
My ex from my relationship before this recent rekindling of the love of my life... It's complicated to explain but just NOT the guy I want to be with anymore..
Well I keep attracting posts by him and his new girlfriend on social media...
So this guy treated me awfully, I totally allowed it, I created it... I DO NOT want him back. But these pictures are REALLY ruffling my feathers! I feel angry he's happy now and with a girl who always made me insecure while we were together... I feel annoyed my guy is pulling away and this mean one is happy with someone! When he was so cruel and also claimed to be dead inside!
The romantic pictures are driving me insane but not because I want him... Because I feel he's 'winning' or I'm being 'punished' how crazy stupid is that?! I want that for me and my guy! The one I'm trying to attract a secure romantic relationship with now.
I'm annoyed he's now in love and happy when my guy is running away.. I feel like maybe I'm not good enough... To be someone's committed girlfriend, for someone to be in love with, as look how happy this guy is with someone else! Is something wrong with me...
See this is where the THOUGHT of sitting down doing a forgiveness meditation on this now happy ex makes me feel SICK! And I think that's why I really need to do it, as it may be blocking me from creating my new relationship with my love.
Anyone been in this position before? Trying to be as honest as possible whilst also understanding of myself!
Gotta forgive that bastard.
X
- Cherished
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Re: Forgiveness
So.. You can probably identify your limiting beliefs and thoughts right there..
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
- rosetinted
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Re: Forgiveness
Cherished wrote:
So.. You can probably identify your limiting beliefs and thoughts right there..
That I'm not good enough?
That people pick someone else or find someone better... I'm not good girlfriend material... And they always find their true love after me... Generally!
I believe other people get what they want in love not me! Think that's the gist of it?
These are crappy beliefs to have. 😐 I want em gone.
I'm going to see if a forgiveness process wth him, with everyone who's hurt me helps.
Xxx
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Re: Forgiveness
So.. You can probably identify your limiting beliefs and thoughts right there..
That I'm not good enough?
That people pick someone else or find someone better... I'm not good girlfriend material... And they always find their true love after me... Generally!
I believe other people get what they want in love not me! Think that's the gist of it?
These are crappy beliefs to have. 😐 I want em gone.
I'm going to see if a forgiveness process wth him, with everyone who's hurt me helps.
Xxx
Well.. It's good you're identifying what you don't want.. But it's a pretty dodgy abd unnecessary story you've got going! And I mean that with all my love 😘
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
- rosetinted
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Re: Forgiveness
So.. You can probably identify your limiting beliefs and thoughts right there..
That I'm not good enough?
That people pick someone else or find someone better... I'm not good girlfriend material... And they always find their true love after me... Generally!
I believe other people get what they want in love not me! Think that's the gist of it?
These are crappy beliefs to have. 😐 I want em gone.
I'm going to see if a forgiveness process wth him, with everyone who's hurt me helps.
Xxx
Well.. It's good you're identifying what you don't want.. But it's a pretty dodgy abd unnecessary story you've got going! And I mean that with all my love 😘
Haha no it's totally messed up. I never seem to be able to shake it totally, I love the idea of simply RADICALLY dropping it.
I actually have a belief that changing beliefs is hard... 😏❤️
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Re: Forgiveness
It doesn't need to be radical.. But in order to reach that state of love and flow that you so desire, you need to begin to shift your perspective. None of the beliefs that you stated are accurate, nor are they useful. You could really benefit from working those beliefs up the emotional scale as explained in Ask and it is Given.
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
- rosetinted
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It doesn't need to be radical.. But in order to reach that state of love and flow that you so desire, you need to begin to shift your perspective. None of the beliefs that you stated are accurate, nor are they useful. You could really benefit from working those beliefs up the emotional scale as explained in Ask and it is Given.
I think I'm so hung up on the 'evidence' for those beliefs of things that have happened it feels tough to shift. But really I know it's not! I need to see it as looking at the world through rose tinted glasses ;) or blue sad ones. Neither are wrong just different perspectives.
And the 'evidence' ah the evidence... Gets me.
I was actually looking at that book on my shelf last night so I'm gonna pull it out now. Thank you x
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Re: Forgiveness
But the "evidence" is what you managed to manifest for yourself from a state of misalignment. You were creating unconsciously, you stumbled upon some fears, you perpetuated them with your focus upon them, and you unknowingly created more into your experience. That being the case, isn't it plausible to entertain the idea that THAT EVIDENCE is OLD VIBRATION connected to OLD fears and OLD beliefs that no longer serve you as a deliberate, conscious creator?
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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Re: Forgiveness
Hi Rosetinted . Yep I completely understand what you're saying. Been there and have been so annoyed with myself for slipping back into old beliefs, for not controlling thoughts better and creating the fears. Mine have been exactly the same as years. Ooh that pesky evidence!!
All I can say is Thank god that its never to late to turn it around!
- rosetinted
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But the "evidence" is what you managed to manifest for yourself from a state of misalignment. You were creating unconsciously, you stumbled upon some fears, you perpetuated them with your focus upon them, and you unknowingly created more into your experience. That being the case, isn't it plausible to entertain the idea that THAT EVIDENCE is OLD VIBRATION connected to OLD fears and OLD beliefs that no longer serve you as a deliberate, conscious creator?
I'm writing this down and sticking it on my mirror lol seriously. I need to keep reading it so it bloody sinks in. The evidence I have is only evidence of my vibe and bad creating habits. Thank you for helping me you have no idea how grateful I am. 🌺
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