Because they all going to see you cant see him unless he makes it offical... He using you.... He needs to decide whaf he wants... He cant keeping doing this.... Bla bla bla!! They end up making me feel bad for talking or seeing him etc!
Only i understand him and they wouldnt understand the connection we have. So i guess its better to not tell them this time, as i have told them before and i did start feeling negative about it and i pushed him away and decided to go NC with him and became really low and depressed because i started believing what they were saying.

MrsPlaha wrote:

Because they all going to see you cant see him unless he makes it offical... He using you.... He needs to decide whaf he wants... He cant keeping doing this.... Bla bla bla!! They end up making me feel bad for talking or seeing him etc!
Only i understand him and they wouldnt understand the connection we have. So i guess its better to not tell them this time, as i have told them before and i did start feeling negative about it and i pushed him away and decided to go NC with him and became really low and depressed because i started believing what they were saying.

I also don't discuss anything about him to my non-loa friends because when I would tell them expecting a fair answer, they make me upset unintentionally because they tell me the thing what they have been seeing practically. Better not to discuss about it.

Last edited by Shy (10/15/2015 10:54 pm)

LoveYourself wrote:

MrsPlaha wrote:

I dont have any loa friends. I know they dont mean it in a harsh way and they are only looking out for me as they have seen hoe it has affected me in the past but this time I want to focus on us without any external judgement or negativity. Saves me having to answer their questions too

You've got us! You know that you can message me anytime, about anything Even if you just want to talk about how much you love him I agree about not mentioning anything to your non LOA friends As long as you let me talk about how much I love my guy lol

Haha sure! Thanks i will do. I only mention him in this forum, you guys are the only people that know i am in contact with him!

Even yesterday when he came over to my house, he was being really affectionate. He had his arm around me when we were sitting on the sofa and he was holding me close to himself. And when he was grabbing his phone or something from the table infront of us he still held on to me! It was like he never wants to let go of me! And everytime i would pull away from him, he would pull me right back! Haha! It was lovely ☺️

Thanks loveyourself and shy, it did feel romantic too.

Also i was going to get my nails done, so just for fun i asked him to guess the colour i was going to get done... And he guessed it correct in the first go! Haha RED!! 💅🏼 Even he was surprised when I was like omg how did you know!? Haha

Excellent!
Congrats...also wish you a very Happy Birthday Baby