Offline
nixsilva wrote:
You have to do what your heart tells you ..
Lol i know. I really want to obviously, but know it can go 2 ways. Either hel be satisfied and back off or it will bring back memories for him and he will want more.
Dec 2014 was the last time we did it. After that he wanted too but i refused but did other things instead. Ahhh confusion lol
Offline
I don't know what others think about it but I will say, Respect yourself first otherwise he won't respect you and will keep things always like this. No offence just my views.
Don't settle for less. He will propose you because he loves you... And it will happen.
Focus now on non-sexual RS and visualize him saying nice things to you being in committed happy relationship with you.
Offline
I started out with RS trying to get him lusting after me as you have. And it worked beautifully. As you have now experienced. But I wanted so much more so instead I now focus more heavily on him being completely in love with me. My scenarios are based around love and closeness and intimacy. And that has indeed brought about a change in our conversations. They are now predominantly about love and our relationship, with a little bit of lust thrown in! It's entirely about where you put your focus and intention.
Offline
I have been so strong for nearly a year now, and stuck to my word of not sleeping with him regardless of how much he begged me. Even today i completely fine until randomly I dont know what happened but the urge was so powerful and strong. I couldnt help it. And i felt like it was my decision to want to sleep with him. I wonder if indirectly vee has been doing rs (fantasizing about me) i dont know where these powerful feelings came from!
I have been doing only doing sexual rs recently. I need to start doing normal visualisations now too.
Last edited by Baby_r (9/15/2015 12:15 pm)
Offline
Cherished wrote:
I started out with RS trying to get him lusting after me as you have. And it worked beautifully. As you have now experienced. But I wanted so much more so instead I now focus more heavily on him being completely in love with me. My scenarios are based around love and closeness and intimacy. And that has indeed brought about a change in our conversations. They are now predominantly about love and our relationship, with a little bit of lust thrown in! It's entirely about where you put your focus and intention.
Great suggestions! This works despite the distance, correct? Would you say that RS works better if you're in the same city vs different countries, or distance doesn't matter?
Β
Offline
I'm in a different country. We are all energy, and we are all connected. Distance is only an issue if you create that
Offline
I saw him tonight! It was amazing! I just got back from him now at 1.45am! Felt so good to be with him again! π
Offline
Aww I'm so happy for you ! This is so amazing !!
Offline
Baby_r wrote:
I saw him tonight! It was amazing! I just got back from him now at 1.45am! Felt so good to be with him again! π
Β
Yaaaaaaaay!!!!!! What's ur new game plan?! π
Offline
Thank you guys!
I just gave him a full on taster of what he can have on a regular bases in a committed relationship!
And woah he was showering me with kisses and cuddles. It felt exactly like it used to. Even he was talking about the past (the good things) and he still remembers a lot. He even knows what I like still. It was funny because we kept remembering so much about one another we literally kept saying to eachother "u know me so well" even he was saying that! Haha
Lets just say he put me before doing his assignment for work and stayed up late with me, even though he has a crazy day doing flu jabs today!
Also he was so interested in my life! Asking how I got the tan, where did i go, for how long, etc etc
He also seemed quite annoyed when I told him about being harassed when I went on holiday to Spain by a random guy who were perving on my arse and making remarks about it, which i totally hate! I just briefly mentioned it as a passing remark and he caught on to it and started questioning me, what happemed, what dis he says? And i thought he would have laughed or made a joke about it but he had an upset/angry face.
Ah yesterday just confirmed Vee is madly in love with me! π
Last edited by Baby_r (9/16/2015 8:53 am)