This is so true!! A lot of us, including myself trying to attract our lovers tend to focus of our state right now and we then attract more of that. Instead we should focus on already been with our lovers like some are already doing on this forum and getting amazing results because of that technique. 

"If there is something you desire that you currently do not have, you need only put your attention upon it, and, by the Law of Attraction, it will come to you, for as you think about this thing or experience that you desire, you offer a vibration, and then, by Law, that very thing or experience must come to you.

However, if there is something that you desire that you currently do not have, and you put your attention upon your current state of not having it, then Law of Attraction will continue to match that not having it vibration, so you will continue to not have that which you desire. It is Law."

Lol you made my night!!  I think on every single thread I've said "you gotta read Ask and it is Given! "
Yay,  I'm so happy you're doing this!!

LoveYourself wrote:

I've read this book, it's good The book that really spoke to me though is called deliberate receiving by Melody Fletcher. She put it in a way that I've finally got it lol.
It's not so much acting as if he's already there, but putting in the emotion as if he's already there. How would you feel if you were getting ready to go out with him or he's just texted you? That's the emotion that you've got to replicate.
I did this by remembering how I felt when I won VIP tickets at the festival and then applying the same emotion to how I'd feel if he was to ask me out - excited, bouncing, singing and dancing round the room, going "eeeeeee" as if you were a kid at christmas lol.

Thanks, I will look into that book next. I totally understand about emotions now. I put a lot of my.emotions in rs today and I really felt it and when he msged me I was jumping with excitement and couldn't stop smiling. It was the best feeling ever. I need to remember this emotion and apply it all the time now! Ahhhhh IM SOO EXCITED!!!! :D

LoveYourself wrote:

yes!!!! What did he say?
 

I just came upstairs to check my phone if he replied back again, and i have 2 msgs from him sent about 4mins ago! I havent opened the recent msgs yet! Again I did a little victory dance when i saw the notifications haha

Will post his replies here soon! 😊

I'm reading this now. I'm about 25% into it. Makes me feel more confident and secure that things are unfolding!