Hello you beautiful love birds

This question is to both of you aswell as anyone else who have accomplished the art of allowing love to enter their lives.

I am vibing really low at the moment so please bear with me if my questions sound really negative

My questions are is it true that once you feel whole and complete in your own self that is when you find true love? (Romantic love)

What were your thought processes and feelings precicely while leading up to the union with each other? Had you released resistance alltogether or where you almost there? Half way there?

Because it seems daunting to me that i will have to get to the point where i have no resistance which means i would be totally satisfied with me and myself and i.....which means two things to me 1- it seems daunting to reach that stage and 2- im afraid then i wont even need another person....and if i dont feel the need or the desire then i wont have my lover come to me 😐😐😐

My mind is going crazy with all these thoughts

You could say im really scared to just let go and embark on this journey of self love.

Thanks guys❤️❤️