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I spent time with her today (the girl who said, and will most-likely still say she has no feelings for me...) and we were joking around a lot. She bought me dinner since I forgot my money at home (gah). And later, she made a "cum" joke, so she's openly talking about sex with me (that's a flirty/good sign I guess?) - And she was very flirty - after making jokes at her expense (we do this stuff back and forth. Nothing rude. Completely playful), she play hits me on the shoulder. (She's hit me on the shoulder a few times today... that's new-ish.)
Then, later on, she bought cookies, and said in a fun tone, "if you take one, I'll slap you. They're MY cookies. You can't have any" (spoken all 'fun like'). Β In my car, she ate a cookie, then offered me one. I obliged and took one. She slapped me, playfully, laughing, saying, "I just did that so I could slap you," with a fun, smiling look on her face.
These are all good signs that she has feelings or interest, yes?
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Hey there! There's no such thing as partial success in LOA! Every good feeling and interaction is a success!! You are operating in your happiness and that's a great sign!!! Keep up the positive, loving and good vibrations and continue to act "as if" you are already in a relationship with the one you love Β She is MOST DEFINITELY feeling your energy!!!
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alston326 wrote:
Hey there! There's no such thing as partial success in LOA! Every good feeling and interaction is a success!! You are operating in your happiness and that's a great sign!!! Keep up the positive, loving and good vibrations and continue to act "as if" you are already in a relationship with the one you love Β She is MOST DEFINITELY feeling your energy!!!
Thank you!!
So these are all good signs?
I guess I'm also just looking for an up-lift as well, because whenever I phone her, we don't talk long, and she's kind of distant which is odd.
But these are all signs she's into me?
I just hope they're not "friendly" things. I don't want to be just a friend anymore to her...
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Yes, they are all good signs!! Maybe create a little distance while focusing on your happiness. If you believe and trust the law of attraction you will not just be friends. Check out some of Veronica's videos on YouTube. She's very inspiring and uplifting. Here's the first one:
Β (if this doesn't work, just search for Veronica Isles)
Keep calm, relaxed and happy, knowing your desires will be your reality, okay?
Have Β great night!
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alston326 wrote:
Yes, they are all good signs!! Maybe create a little distance while focusing on your happiness. If you believe and trust the law of attraction you will not just be friends. Check out some of Veronica's videos on YouTube. She's very inspiring and uplifting. Here's the first one:
Β (if this doesn't work, just search for Veronica Isles)
Keep calm, relaxed and happy, knowing your desires will be your reality, okay?
Have Β great night!
Thank you so so much!! I just hope these aren't "just friends" signs. Gosh, I want her back more than anything. I'll check those out, thank you so much!!
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happyinlove wrote:
Um I can tell you by reading this that she was flirting Definetly flirting. Keep this up! π
I hope so... because she can be super distant. I hope she's not like this to all her guy friends... I can't see a reason why she would be.
Maybe she's just distant because when she's away from me, she thinks of all the ways I accidentally screwed her over, it it pulls her away again?
I asked her if she wanted to grab lunch next week and she said "sure. Tell me when you're free".Β
I just REALLY hope I'm not friendzoned D:
Thank you though
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happyinlove wrote:
Don't over think that can get you into doubt and all that stuff. Be happy with this. Reaffirm with your behavior that you want to keep this going. Doing that means being positive and feeling that good vibe. Be patient! It is coming! I wasn't patient and had a hiccup yesterday but I'm working to keep my vibe up. It's all about feeling good. Keep it up! Don't think about how she is with anyone else only think about your relationship with her.know that you deserve desire!
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I hope I can do that. I'm trying really really hard to stay positive but there's always this anxious feeling in my gut, telling me she's seeing someone else even thought she says she's not. I think it's just my worry. What do I do about that?
And how do I know this isn't just a friendly thing? I'm sorry. I'm just really scared.
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happyinlove wrote:
No you are fine lol I think I annoyed everyone here with the same questions over and over again ( look me up my name was confused π). I can tell you from experience that focusing on the relationship with other people will eventually manifest that her seeing someone else. Now don't panic it doesn't happen right away. What you can do is every time that thought comes into your mind say to yourself I will not react and remain feelig neutral. If you don't send it energy it can't happen. Or if you can't do that think of something completely random like I just start thinking of a song. I know how you feel about reading into the actions and I have been guilty I think we all have . When you do that you then think negative thoughts and then react in a needy way. Yesterday I texts my guy and it turned from positive to me being needy and forcing something. I manifested that BUT I'm not gonna dwell or replay yea it's hard but I keep thinking what I just told you plus I distract myself. What you can do to keep is positive is write a gratitude journal . Now you don't have to write it all about her but one can be being grateful for the time you spent with her. I just thought to myself I m grateful my guy texted me back. That small but it keeps these actions positive. Do that and it will keep you from overthinking it and you will just accept it as good. Sorry for the ramble hope it makes sense! Keep in mind this takes pratice and discipline I'm still doing it too with any negative thoughts
Thank you so much
I just have this feeling in my gut that she's seeing someone else, and I'm HOPING it's due to my worries. I don't know how to get rid of that. Even if I'm positive it's there in my gut :O
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happyinlove wrote:
No you are fine lol I think I annoyed everyone here with the same questions over and over again ( look me up my name was confused π). I can tell you from experience that focusing on the relationship with other people will eventually manifest that her seeing someone else. Now don't panic it doesn't happen right away. What you can do is every time that thought comes into your mind say to yourself I will not react and remain feelig neutral. If you don't send it energy it can't happen. Or if you can't do that think of something completely random like I just start thinking of a song. I know how you feel about reading into the actions and I have been guilty I think we all have . When you do that you then think negative thoughts and then react in a needy way. Yesterday I texts my guy and it turned from positive to me being needy and forcing something. I manifested that BUT I'm not gonna dwell or replay yea it's hard but I keep thinking what I just told you plus I distract myself. What you can do to keep is positive is write a gratitude journal . Now you don't have to write it all about her but one can be being grateful for the time you spent with her. I just thought to myself I m grateful my guy texted me back. That small but it keeps these actions positive. Do that and it will keep you from overthinking it and you will just accept it as good. Sorry for the ramble hope it makes sense! Keep in mind this takes pratice and discipline I'm still doing it too with any negative thoughts
Thank you so much
I just have this feeling in my gut that she's seeing someone else, and I'm HOPING it's due to my worries. I don't know how to get rid of that. Even if I'm positive it's there in my gut :O
Normally your worries are the cause of them seeing someone else because you keep sending the message to the universe about them "moving on". I wrote it that way because in a way our frequency encourages it. In my situation my darling is dating someone else, but I don't make a topic out of it, nor do I dwell on it. He only mentioned her once to me, which I am thankful for. I don't want him to start bragging about her.
Buuuuuttttttt, our communication has greatly improved and he even said something that everyone else on here has been saying. To focus on myself, then focus on fixing relationships. Which I feel was no coincidence. Somewhere in his subconscious mind his energy frequency is picking up on what I am trying to do and so he said that. I just strongly feel what he said happened for a reason. Our subconscious minds are what reads our frequencies.
I found it very interesting, as well as, I always see the numbers 1111 which means I am coming into alignment with my desire. I don't dare look for signs, but I get signs in so many ways. One day I felt like we would run into each other and I caught a glimpse of behind him walking by. Apparently he smiled at me. You see, the Universe has mysterious ways of telling you you are on the right track. Or even reminding you to stay on track. You will encounter these things too.
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Thanks guys
I asked her if she wanted to skype tonight, ,she replied, "maybe....maybe not I honestly don't know", and I said, "well it's entirely up to you! " And she replied, "Nah I don't think I should actually so no".
"Should"? I don't understand why she said that? Does she not want me thinking she has feelings for me? She's been flirty... I don't know how she feels. It kind of hurts with her saying that...